Sexual Health
What kind of person can cause sexual harm to a 9-year-old girl who has been sexually assaulted for four years
I'm fine... Xiaohua, a 9-year-old girl from western Guangdong, sat on the hospital bed, burying her face in the big doll and said timidly. It is unimaginable that in the past 4 years, due to multiple violations, Xiaohua's urethra and anus have been torn, and the days of mixed urine and feces have passed, resulting in a closed vaginal infection. Xiaohua's parents talked about her daughter's suffering and repeatedly said, 'I've known for a long time and we won't leave our hometown to work together.'.
Seeing the small flowers recovering on the bed, their big eyes sparkled and they were particularly wary of strangers. They only spoke with their mother's repeated advice. Father Rong and mother's eyes turned red when they recalled the incident.
Xiaohua has older brothers and younger brothers. When she was 5 years old, in order to earn more money, her parents left her hometown together and went to Shenzhen to work. "I work as a security guard, and her mother works as a dishwasher. She doesn't earn much, but at least she can support the family," Mr. Rong said. However, the couple is worried that the children can only stay at their grandmother's house and take care of their daily life. They are also afraid of the elderly being tired and the children having problems.
Unexpectedly, after only half a month's work, the bad news really came - Grandma called, saying that Xiaohua often complained of pain in her lower body and anus, and there was pus and swelling when she opened it. Moreover, the child had Fecal incontinence, and the anus also urinated when urinating, and the urethra also urinated when defecating, which turned out to be mixed urine and feces. I've been making myself stinky and ashamed all day, I can't take care of it
Xiaohua's mother quickly returned to the village to take a look. Only half a month later, the child had lost a large circle due to pain. Regardless of the root cause of the investigation, the mother and daughter went to the village health station, county hospital, and Shenzhen hospital one after another. The results showed that Xiaohua's vagina and anus were ruptured, and the anus was connected to the vagina and urethra, requiring surgery, but the cost was over 10000 yuan. However, where can impoverished houses afford to spend this money, wash them with disinfectant, and at most add anti infective drugs.
In this way, Xiaohua's injury dragged on for more than four years. She gritted her teeth to endure the pain and embarrassment of Fecal incontinence, urine and feces mixing.
What kind of person can cause sexual harm to children
The majority of people who cause sexual harm to children are not strangers, but are usually the most familiar, trusted, respected, close, and dependent individuals. The infringer is in an unequal power relationship with their children, such as their own relatives, neighbors, teachers, parents, friends, etc. Children lack a sense of prevention towards such people and have never thought that their loved ones and respected ones would cause sexual assault on them. The infringer uses their rights to violate and deprive the victim child of the right and will to freely control their own body. According to the investigation and statistics of sexual assault incidents by relevant departments, 85% of child sexual assault incidents are committed by these individuals, with only 15% of cases involving strangers sexually assaulting children.