What kind of man is considered a mature man? Today, the editor will summarize the characteristics of mature men and see if they are mature. The following are the reference standards:
1、 Respect the elderly and love the young: Mature men have love, a sense of social responsibility, and traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give up his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate to disaster stricken areas, help out of school children, volunteer blood donation... They may not do all of these things, but they will never do nothing.
2、 Hobbies: They are not just robots who know how to work, they know how to use their hobbies to regulate their tense nerves, and work and leisure are both compatible, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to become bad.
3、 Valuing Promises: Mature men will never go back on their promises. They value every promise they make and carefully consider whether their words can be fulfilled before making a wish. If they cannot be fulfilled, they will never say it and keep it. Every word he says makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. Men who run trains with their mouths full, fire empty guns indiscriminately, and are slow to take action are not related to maturity.
4、 Don't exaggerate: Mature men never talk casually, they will grasp the appropriate silence, speak clearly but not loudly. Drink some wine and fill the table with your own small experiences and stories. Even half the room can hear them without using a loudspeaker. This kind of man can make the audience laugh at most, and no one will keep your diverse so-called "path of struggle" in their hearts.
5、 Not centered on oneself: Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at empathizing and considering problems from the perspective of others. They do not force others to accommodate themselves and are good at cooperating with others. Any man who says' how am I? 'has a typical little emperor temperament and has not yet grown up.
6、 Brave to admit mistakes: Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at taking good advice. They are brave enough to bear the consequences of their inappropriate decisions and never find excuses to prevaricate.
7、 Resolute willpower: Mature men have the psychological quality of staying calm and steady. Once they determine their goal to strive for, they strive towards it. When encountering setbacks, they analyze the reasons, learn from lessons, and correct their direction in a timely manner, but they never easily retreat. They may be tired, but after resting, they set off confidently.
8、 Clean and tidy: Mature men respect their appearance. They have the most suitable hairstyle, clean chin without stubble, non greasy face, and no long nails. Clothes don't necessarily need to be branded, but they are neat and generous, and won't look wrinkled like a delivery person. They will never wear black leather shoes with white socks or a suit to travel.
9、 Learned and reserved: they read books, receive new things and information, and enrich themselves and their content. But their talents are only displayed when necessary, and they will never show off in order to satisfy their vanity. They are like mellow wine, the more they taste, the more flavor they have.
10、 Broad-minded: Mature men do not haggle over every detail, do not seek small gains, do not care about taking small losses, and do not complain endlessly. Their eyes are never hindered by trivial matters, and they are often the "angels who turn back first" when it comes to small family disputes.