People often exaggerate the issue of male sexuality, turning misinformation into reality, which is harmful to both body and mind. Therefore, it is important to identify misinformation.
Is it better to get bigger?
Most men believe that women prefer large penises. However, no proof can be found at present. Some men have seen the penis of others and always feel that their penis is smaller. Experts point out that this is due to the shrinkage effect seen from the top. When you look at your penis from the top, it is visually smaller than when people look at other men's penises.
There is also a misconception that an erection of the penis is as hard as a stone and can last for several hours. This statement is very harmful. Some women feel guilty about their lack of charm when their partners engage in sexual activity for a short period of time. In fact, when the penis is erect, the average duration is only a few minutes.
Do women say 'no' mean 'yes'?
There is a misconception about women's sexual desire: women can have sex anytime, and when they say 'no', it means' yes'; They only resist sex unless forced; Most of the time, they have orgasms. Although this is a misconception about women, it has a significant impact on men's thoughts. When their partner cannot achieve orgasm, they will think that their skills are flawed. And if a partner says' no 'and they mistakenly say' yes', it is likely to cause unnecessary sexual conflict.
Sex and love should not be confused
Sex and love are not the same thing: therefore, sex cannot be used to prove one's own love. Some young men say to their girlfriends, 'If you don't have sexual intercourse with me, you don't love me.' This is completely a lie, a trick for young men to occupy their girlfriends' bodies. If sex and love are the same thing, then men who develop sexual desire for any attractive woman are in love with her. This is clearly wrong.
Is the technology of sex innate?
The misconception that men naturally know how to engage in sexual activity. It is very harmful. In fact, there are many things that must be learned about how to have sex. No man can say that he can make a woman have sexual pleasure because he must understand her special reactions and preferences in order to do so. Understanding is also a form of learning. Paradoxically, most women do not like to share their preferences with men, as they believe that men are born to know how to do it.
Think of sex and get an erection?
This is completely a misconception: whenever couples think of sexual intercourse, men will have an erection. In fact, as men age, they require more stimulation to develop an erection. Miscommunication is harmful if women want sex. And if a man doesn't have an erection as expected, she may think he no longer loves her. And she may seek love elsewhere to prove her sexual appeal.
For women, it is quite important to have a correct understanding of male excitement and erection.
What is the feeling of being a 'man'?
Most men believe that the so-called man must be strong, enterprising, emotional control, and someone who dominates others. Therefore, when they experience feelings of worry and weakness, they consider themselves not to be men. It is very normal for men to have such emotions.
Must sexual intercourse be sexual?
Men often receive education in their childhood that they never give up until they reach their goals. When sex is seen as a purposeful activity by them, they equate it with intercourse, and consider foreplay and afterplay optional, no matter how much fun they have. Experts point out that sex and intercourse cannot be equated.
Is the result of caressing mating?
Most men believe that any caressing result in intercourse. Experts point out that this is a misconception caused by men limiting sex to union. Caressing itself is a pleasure that can be enjoyed alone without the need for companionship.
Is sex sexual intercourse?
If sex refers to giving birth, then sex is almost synonymous with sexual intercourse. But today, most men's sexual experiences are for pleasure, not fertility. Therefore, most men believe that normal sex is closely related to their partner's enjoyment, and if their partner is dissatisfied with sex, they consider it abnormal. Men who have this misconception must seek expert consultation.
Sex is a spontaneous charm
Most people admit that their first sexual experience was disappointing. Some people believe that the arrangement of sex is somewhat 'unnatural'. They believe that good sex arises naturally, not through creation. Influenced by this misunderstanding, some people seek spontaneous sex. Experts' research shows that some people are annoyed by the lack of spontaneous sex in marriage and seek extramarital relationships, thinking that it can lead to spontaneous sex.