Post Date December, 03 2023
First of all, feel inferiority, and then start to strengthen themselves
Men who are lovelorn often feel inferiority complex. Because they feel that the recognition of the person they like will make them more confident. But what they don't understand is that they need to be quiet when they are lovelorn. They only have two ideas: first, the other side's requirements are too high. Second, I must work hard to find a better one. In fact, all this can not cover up the inferiority complex of the other party. The desire to get but not to get, this inferiority complex will let you transfer all the pain to personal efforts and struggles, so the explosive power of lovelorn men is often amazing.
Second, stop trusting women and start to focus on career
Lovelorn men seldom trust women. They think that love is either true or playful. If they can't get the woman they like in this life, no matter who is around them, they will despise it, because he feels that he has lost his favorite in life. So he will be stingy about his time in love. He is not willing to invest and spend time for the so-called love. He is only willing to spend his time on what he thinks is more important. It is precisely because of this attitude that he began to understand empathy. He began to become rational and thus laid a good foundation for his future success.
Thirdly, the expectation of love began to decrease
A man who is lovelorn often thinks that his love has passed him in this life. In the future, just find someone to marry. They will lower their expectations of love. They believe that this life should not be abandoned for love. At the same time, they also feel disappointed with themselves. Sometimes they are sad and will lament the reality. But as men, the responsibility and pressure given by society make them understand self-adjustment. The ancient concept of comparing women like clothes can still brainwash. If you can't get each other, you will begin to comfort yourself.
Finally, I began to understand the essence of love
Even if a lovelorn man does not get love, such emotional tempering is enough to make the other party know what true love is. I have a person I miss in my heart. Sometimes I feel very happy when I think about it. In life, many things may not be as we wish, perhaps this is the original intention of love. Even if you don't get the other party, you will feel happy and happy when you think about the way you have been together with the other party. The essence of love is often once owned. Even those who have loved each other and supported each other for life, if they are what love is, it may also be called once owned! This is the great irony of love in life.
The lovelorn man has both inferiority and self-improvement. Even if they did not get their ideal love, they also bred a lot of feelings about love. The gains and losses of this life are often very meaningful. What is lost has already been owned, and what is not obtained need not be persistent. It is the true meaning of free and easy to understand not to persist in the past and not to tangle in the future.
