What is the true psychology of a person who is afraid of getting married? Early understanding

What is the true psychology of a person who is afraid of getting married? Do you know? Let's take a look together.

Heilongjiang reader Zhang Xiaoxiao asked: My boyfriend and I have been in love for five years. He is 33 years old. I will get married at the age of 29. But every time I talk about marriage, he always changes the theme, which makes me very sad. In fact, my boyfriend treats me well and has a good financial situation, but he just doesn't want to get married. Why are you afraid of getting married?

Taiwanese marriage and family therapist Li Shengzhi replied that one of the important reasons why modern people get married late is their fear of getting married. American scholars say they are concerned that marriage is global. Over the past five years, 70% of young people have received pre marital training, eliminating the fear of marriage. Among those who are afraid of getting married, most men have better financial conditions than those with poor economic foundations. The main reasons why men are afraid of getting married are as follows: firstly, they are afraid of losing their freedom and do not want to constrain marriage and change themselves. They are more afraid of forcing themselves to adapt to others after marriage.

Secondly, fear the responsibility and pressure of marriage. Nowadays, young people are taken care of by their parents for a long time. Once married, facing issues such as life, the elderly, children, and property alone can bring pressure and lead to thoughts of avoidance.

Thirdly, more and more divorcees are worried about issues after marriage. Finally, a person may be harmed, such as disharmony between parents. When facing a boyfriend who is afraid of getting married, don't force him. Understand that he is at home on weekends and often takes him to a happy friend's house.

One day he will enter the palace of marriage with you.