Sexual Health
What is the reason for the lack of Orgasm? What are the consequences of women's suppression of Orgasm
Orgasm is an important stage in the process of sexual intercourse between men and women, an important condition for the success of copulation, and the highest expression of copulation harmony. The symbol of male Orgasm is the ejaculation action full of pleasure. Although the performance of female Orgasm is more complex, its instantaneous feeling is similar to that of male. Men do not ejaculate or ejaculate significantly during sexual intercourse, making it difficult to achieve orgasm; Women's lack of orgasm experience during sexual intercourse belongs to the lack of Orgasm.
The lack of orgasm is different from comprehensive sexual suppression. People who lack Orgasm have sexual impulses, and can obtain a certain degree of sexual pleasure during sexual intercourse, but can not reach the Orgasm stage. However, people with comprehensive Sexual inhibition have no sexual desire and pleasure at all. The vagina is dry during sexual intercourse, so they must feel vaginal pain.
Female Orgasm suppression can be divided into primary and secondary.
Almost all the reasons for the suppression of primary Orgasm are psychosocial. Women are traditionally in a passive state in social and sexual life. When they were young, they received negative education on sexual life, as well as the wrong view of nudity. Emotional discord caused by forced marriage may be the cause of the disease.
The causes of secondary Orgasm suppression include fatigue, depression, lack of emotional communication between couples, mutual dissatisfaction and distrust, lack of touch before sexual intercourse and other flirting activities, as well as monotonous sexual life.
Generally speaking, only 19% of women can experience Orgasm within one year of marriage, and up to 60% after five years of marriage. The cooperation and tacit understanding between the two parties are by no means overnight. Human sexual activity is not innate, it needs to learn to master. At present, the incidence of female Anorgasmia surveyed in China is about 50%, indicating that our sex education and sexual knowledge are still lagging behind.
The reasons for the lack of Orgasm can be divided into two categories: psychogenic and somatic. The former is much more common than the latter, which are introduced below.
Psychogenic factors: Generally speaking, it is more difficult for women to achieve Orgasm than men. They not only require a harmonious emotional foundation, but also require a happy mood and good and quiet environmental conditions at the time of sexual intercourse. Any lack of the above conditions is likely to cause the lack of Orgasm. Therefore, family disharmony, financial constraints, tight housing, unsatisfactory work, inconsiderate husband, fear of pregnancy and husband's affair can all be the reasons for the lack of Orgasm. Some men lack sexual knowledge and don't know how to be gentle, which causes the woman to start sexual intercourse before she can enter the estrus stage, thus causing vaginal pain and inhibiting the production of Orgasm. Some men are very tired and sleep after ejaculation, while the woman's Sexual arousal subsides slowly, which may cause the woman's aversion. Over time, a strong psychological inhibition is formed in the woman, which hinders the acquisition of Orgasm. Some men cannot give enough sexual stimulation to the woman because each sexual intercourse lasts for a short time, which is also one of the common reasons for the lack of Orgasm.