Post Date November, 16 2024
The dream of love is a common but difficult to share form, and behind it, there are actually many real thoughts hidden. The American magazine "Yue Ji" has published 8 of the most common sexual dreams and invited multiple psychologists and sexologists to interpret them.
Psychologist Freud believes that the function of dreams is to protect sleep. When people fall asleep, their self-awareness is relaxed, and suppressed desires (often sexual) rush into consciousness to interrupt sleep. These desires are allowed to be partially expressed in disguised forms such as dreams. This imaginative process of transforming unconscious desires into dreams is called dream work.
Due to the desire of teenagers to seek and reveal the mysteries of sex, they want to understand the secrets of both sexes. Therefore, everything related to sex around them, such as movies, pornographic stories, female art films, and intimate actions between parents, will have different impacts on them. In a clear state, one has the ability to self-control, so they are usually buried in the heart without expression. After falling asleep, the control of the brain temporarily disappears, and sexual instincts and desires are reflected in dreams. Therefore, sexual dreams are mostly a natural manifestation caused by the traces left by sexual stimulation. The spermatorrhea is the main sign of male Sexual maturity, and Sexual maturity may be an important physiological reason for sexual dreams.
Interpretation of various sexual dreams that may arise in life
Dream 1: Dreaming of intimate behavior with superiors and colleagues. 26 year old single female teacher Leslie doesn't socialize much with her colleagues, but she often dreams of a male colleague taking her outdoors to ride a horse. In her dream, the stimulation of the saddle made her enjoy pleasure and even moan. Leslie often feels embarrassed about it.
Dr. Pam Spall, an expert in interpersonal psychology in London, UK, said that dreaming of a superior or colleague does not necessarily indicate that you subconsciously want to have a relationship with them. Most of the time, it indicates that you admire the person's abilities and hope that they can provide you with guidance and help. Horses often appear in female sexual dreams, and women who enjoy masturbation may dream of touching horses.
Dream 2: Dream of having sex in public. 29 year old Dina dreamed that she met a strange man at the airport. The man approached her and pulled her into her arms. The two started having sex in front of everyone. What made Dina feel the funniest was that she couldn't see the man's face clearly in her dream.
Carol L. Cummings, an expert in dream analysis from Arizona, USA, said that these types of sexual dreams reveal an open mindset, indicating that you are looking forward to a new relationship and are passionate about a new romantic life. Unable to see a man's face clearly "is a form of self-protection, indicating that the heart is still preparing for the arrival of a new relationship.
Dream Three: Dreaming of intimacy with the same sex. 37 year old nurse Jane dreamed of encountering a woman in a coffee shop. When she drank coffee, the coffee foam splashed on her mouth, and the woman smiled and kissed her lips and neck. In reality, Jane has no homosexual tendencies.
Dr. Spall said that dreaming of being in love with the same sex does not mean that your sexual orientation has changed, but rather that you expect more attention and consideration in terms of sex, and you desire your partner to act more gently. It also indicates that you expect same-sex understanding in your life.
Dream 4: Dreams and celebrity sex. Kathy, 34, said that during the period when Titanic was popular, she dreamed many times that she had sex with Leonardo DiCaprio, the male star, in broad daylight. She didn't stop even when her family found out.
People often have sexual dreams related to celebrities, especially women. Dreaming of having sex with a celebrity is actually hoping that one's partner has a certain trait reflected by the celebrity, such as bravery or romance. Having a family member appear in her dream without stopping indicates that she is very confident in sex.
Dream 5: Dreaming of having sex at home as a child. Mary, 39 years old, dreamed of having sex with a man in her mother's house, but she didn't like that man and even felt disgusted. Many of her sexual dreams occurred in her childhood home.
Dr. Holloway said that dreaming of a childhood home indicates that current sexual attitudes are greatly influenced by the family, and also indicates a desire to return to a simpler life in childhood. Dreaming of having sex with someone you dislike indicates that you may encounter some difficulties in reality that you have to face and need to communicate with those around you.
Dream 6: Dreaming of an affair. At the age of 31, Liz has repeatedly dreamed of having an affair with her husband's brother or friend. In the dream, sex is very natural, and Liz enjoys it extremely. But such a straightforward and authentic sexual dream also made her feel "guilty of cheating".
Dr. Spall said that this kind of dream does not mean you want to cheat. Perhaps it's just that your life is too mundane. Having such dreams repeatedly indicates that you are tired of a certain part of your marriage (which may not necessarily be sexual), and measures should be taken to reignite your passion for marriage.
Dream 7: Dreaming of the revival of old love. Stephanie, 37 years old, is already the mother of two children. She often dreams of a passionate mentor she secretly fell in love with during her college years, whose profound and profound insights have conquered her.
Dr. Cummings said that if we have a strong emotional connection with someone, we may dream about them in our sexual dreams. Dreaming of old love in the past is very common, perhaps symbolizing something that you are associated with. Stephanie's dream of a mentor indicates that she misses the youth, freedom, and thirst for knowledge she had at that stage.
Dream 8: Dreaming of sexual interruption. Katie, 39, dreamed of having sex with a man she liked, but it ended before she reached Orgasm. She often has such sexual dreams, and foreplay is excellent, but she is always interrupted near orgasm.
Dr. Cummings stated that on the one hand, this may indicate that Katie's sexual needs have not been met, and on the other hand, she is dissatisfied with her current life situation. If you constantly dream of sexual interruption or inability to reach orgasm, it may indicate a lack of trust in your partner or a fear of intimate sex.
The Meaning behind Women's Sexual Dreams
Having sex with strangers
Oh my goodness, I could have lost my sense of shame and slept naked with a stranger I never knew. My mouth was still making lewd noises, and the entire scene was like a spring palace movie!
After waking up, I can still feel my cheeks burning!
Sexual information:
There are two possibilities for this dream - one is that you have recently been humiliated in public; 2、 The relationship between you and your partner is currently experiencing a crisis of turning from strong to weak.
You are actually very eager in your heart to add some catalysts to each other's feelings and warm them up again.
Having sex with my ex boyfriend
Aren't we already separated?
However, at this moment, everyone's expressions are so devoted... The sweetness of the past has been awakened again, and I have actually enjoyed climax after climax!
Sexual information:
Dreaming of having sex with your ex boyfriend or ex husband may indicate that you are in an uncontrollable emotional state.
Are you repeatedly attracted to a certain type of man among the opposite sex you have interacted with? The problem is that this type of man is not your MrRight at all, so every relationship cannot bear fruit!
What you need to do is to re-examine your criteria for selecting the opposite sex.
Having sex with celebrities
He slowly turned his head... Mygod! It's my idol BradPitt! His sexy smile is as charming as on the screen; The scent emanating from him was so intoxicating; He held me tightly in his arms with his strong and powerful arms; Warm lips transmit waves of ecstatic pleasure that captivate me
Sexual information:
This dream shows your desire to pursue adventure and excitement, or to find a new partner. It may also indicate that you want to have the same traits as the celebrity in your dream.
For example, you dream of having a relationship with Jacky Cheung, and you long for your love life to be as happy as he and May Lo, because Jacky is not a god of song, but also very family oriented and loyal to his partner.
If your sexual partner is HughGrant, hey, it may indicate that there are mischievous factors in your potential personality, and sometimes you also want to betray your partner and cheat!
