Post Date November, 16 2024
Many people do not know what the expectation of desire is, and the expectation of desire is when it comes to desire. In fact, the period of libido is a stage of psychological development before the age of one, and adults also have a period of libido. Next, let's investigate what the libido period is and how to respond to adults' libido period.
What is the libido period?
The oral desire period is a concept proposed by Freud. It is one of the several stages of psychological development from birth to sexual maturity, during which the oral desire period, anal desire period, and genital period are the three main stages of development. The libido period refers to the period before the first year of life, during which a baby is in a state of no self-reliance and relies on its mother for everything it does. Because there is no basic ability to move, everything is requested or experienced through the mouth. In this early childhood, the mouth is a very important tool. For example, when hungry, eating milk with your mouth, when emotions are bad, crying and protesting with your mouth, and when angry, biting with your mouth. All actions revolve around the mouth as an organ.
Whether adults have a period of libido is still a controversial topic, and of course, many people have an attitude towards it. The adult's libido period is mainly displayed from two aspects, one is psychological sensation, and the other is behavioral expression.
There are actually three psychological manifestations of adult libido: firstly, it is easy to evade responsibility when facing difficulties, and secondly, it prefers to be alone and does not like to get along with others. Thirdly, special selfish things are self centered and do not like to consider others. These three manifestations are the psychological manifestations of adults entering the period of libido. Adults' performance in their libido and behavior is particularly dependent on something. For example, holding a cigarette in your mouth, biting betel nuts, and liking oral sex during sexual activity are typical behaviors.
How to deal with adult libido?
1. Face oneself squarely
One of the psychological manifestations of an adult's libido period is that during the special stage when they have already entered the libido period, the influence of the libido period can lead to a certain degree of self deception in their self-awareness. Therefore, in order to successfully pass the stage of appetite, the first step is to face this need squarely, not treat it as a disease, but to accept oneself and change it. The libido period is often harmless and a normal physiological and psychological phenomenon, without the need for excessive psychological burden.
