Post Date November, 16 2024
I believe many families have awkward situations where they are hit by children in their rooms. Many parents don't know how to cope. Today's editor will teach you some techniques. Embarrassment can be awkward, but teaching children is a good way at this time!
What should I do if I'm hit by a child while it's popping?
1. Parents are likely to feel surprised, shy, and angry, which is a very normal psychological reaction in the situation at the time. However, be calm and try to digest this emotion in a short period of time. Do not scold the child angrily, as it will exacerbate the child's sense of shame and guilt. In addition to quickly covering and organizing body posture, attention should also be shifted to the child as soon as possible. This process naturally improves.
2. If the child asks: What are you doing? It indicates that he knows nothing about it, and this is a great opportunity for sex education. Children have the right to know, and parents also have the right to know. What should we sue our children? This is a manifestation of parental love, and sexual behavior has been a natural behavior of humans since ancient times, with unique rules. Based on the child's age, provide concise explanations in the language they know. This is also an unexpected event for the child. He is not mentally prepared and should not be talking at length. The principle is what do you think we are doing? Knowing where a child's curiosity lies is not about the parents' own embarrassment about sex, but rather about the difficulty of expressing it. If the child keeps asking, parents should also stop appropriately. Due to too much information, children cannot digest it in a timely manner, especially in the current state of their parents, who are not fully prepared to provide sex education to their children. Therefore, utilizing children's curiosity, they can continue to educate them on sexual knowledge in the near future.
3. If the child does not speak and turns around to leave (turning to sleep), it indicates that the child feels uncomfortable in the scene and does not know if they really know about sex. At this point, parents should not actively communicate with their children. Recently, it is important to actively understand children's understanding of sex and provide appropriate sex education.
4. If a child expresses negative emotions, the guardian should communicate with the child in a timely manner as soon as possible. It is best to understand the reasons for children's negative reactions. If children refuse to communicate, parents should also actively express themselves, such as: our love is not in a fight; He is not bullying me; We did not do anything shameful; We are very willing to do such a thing; We love each other, which is one of the ways adults express their love; This kind of thing is our privacy, we are not with you, it's not that we don't love you and so on. The purpose is to seize opportunities, prevent or promptly correct children's negative attitudes towards sex, and even incorrect perceptions.
