What if I accidentally discover that my husband and his female apprentice have a particularly ambiguous relationship

There is something wrong with my relationship with my husband.

Recently, I noticed that he and one of his little female apprentices are getting very close. That girl sent a WeChat message to my husband at 12:30 pm saying she doesn't have any money. That day, I accidentally heard my husband's phone ring. He fell asleep, so I looked at it. I knew his phone password, but there was no chat record. He deleted it, and my intuition told me that their relationship was different. In a fit of anger, I replied on my husband's phone, but the girl didn't reply again. I didn't answer the video either.

The next day when my husband went to work, the little girl told him that I replied on his phone. My husband was very angry and had a fight with me, even changing his phone password. Later, I restored my husband's chat records and found that their conversation was very ambiguous. He called me husband Goudan, and my husband called her Erni.

Another time, when my husband was holding my daughter at home, he called out "Er Ni". That little girl is my husband's apprentice, and I don't know what to do?

reply:

Based on your description, it is evident that your husband is suspected of having an affair, at least mentally. I'm not sure what kind of job your husband does, and she also has a female apprentice. Is she a hairdresser.

So far, stop flipping through your husband's phone and focus more on how to manage your marriage. At this point, you have already discovered his infidelity, and your husband also knows that you are checking him. Don't try to provoke him head-on, as that will only increase his rebelliousness and undermine mutual trust. It's best for you to find a suitable opportunity to sit down with your husband calmly and have a conversation. If you don't speak clearly, you can talk to each other and understand their true thoughts. Find out what caused him to have an affair? Is it because of dissatisfaction with you, boredom with marriage, a sudden impulse to seek fresh excitement, or being tempted by that girl? Only by understanding the cause can we prescribe the right medicine to the case.

In most cases, men provoke other women outside with a playful attitude and do not take them too seriously. Therefore, you don't need to be too nervous. Take a good look at the current situation of your marriage, identify the problems, and find ways to improve your marital relationship, enhance your feminine charm, and make some amazing changes quietly. Your husband will naturally feel invisible pressure, and then restrain his behavior.

If he not only refuses to restrain but also becomes more and more indulgent, then you should always be fully prepared to deal with it, and grasp your own right and wrong bottom line and principles.