Eliminate the five psychological thoughts of women and enhance their happiness in love. If you are a beautiful and virtuous wife, but living a loving life is unbearable, there are always some awkward emotions that affect you. Every time you try to do better, but it is always so unsatisfactory. So, let me quietly tell you how to eliminate five psychological thoughts of women and improve their happiness in love!
1. Don't go to bed with an injured mood
When T and A first got married, they had a long period of disharmony with each other. T fantasized that her sexual life would be as good as her girlfriend described and described in the book. Moreover, she and A were so infatuated with each other. Unexpectedly, on their wedding night, she wiped away tears. Her husband's caressing and sexual style made her uncomfortable and uncomfortable, and A's lack of cooperation with T made her feel even more flustered.
The two of them became unhappy, and every night when they went to bed, they both felt the helplessness. Realizing this, A began to examine her own shortcomings and consciously read books on relevant aspects to adjust her mindset. Soon, the wife felt completely different from her previous feelings, it was a pleasure of physical and mental integration, and the husband's eyes were also filled with joy.
Sometimes, what is most worth learning is often the most difficult to learn. Of course, when encountering setbacks, it's not entirely your fault. If you're feeling hurt before going to bed, you won't feel the beauty of sex anyway. In life, because you love him too much, you care too much about his feelings. But you also need to think about whether the other person is like-minded. If he keeps taking and never pays attention to your feelings, then don't always think foolishly about him and feel heartbroken for him.
In short, try to experience sexual life with a happy mood. Your smile will attract his gaze, and your tenderness will ignite his enthusiasm. To have a healthy and perfect sexual life, you must first believe in yourself and your partner. Through continuous practice and learning, your marriage will become more mature and your sex will become increasingly perfect.
2. Don't feel inferior about your body shape
D once had a devilish figure, but since giving birth to her son, she has become increasingly plump. She has taken various weight loss pills and consumed many weight loss teas, but it has not been effective. She is extremely frustrated, so every night after the children fall asleep, she works hard to practice sit-ups until she is sweating profusely and exhausted, but the sad thing is that the effect is still not obvious.
When she is with her husband at night, she always worries that he doesn't like her body, which makes her body and mind tense. Especially after exercising, she is extremely tired and has no interest in her husband's caressing. Gradually, her husband's frustration becomes dull.
In fact, although appearance may not make you lose all your beauty, depression can make you lose more charm. In fact, 80% of women have a body shape within the standard range, indicating that most women's anxiety and inferiority about their body shape are unnecessary. Being optimistic about your body is an essential condition for achieving perfect sex.
If your chest is too flat, there is no need to blame yourself. As long as you are filled with love in your heart and understand the techniques of love, you can also receive recognition and appreciation from your husband in bed.
3. Tell him the true longing in your heart
She has always disliked her husband's way of making love, such as the light at the bedside making her uncomfortable, and even making her feel nervous and oppressive; The snort sprayed by her husband on her neck always makes her ignore other feelings; After her husband finished, he fell asleep, causing her to feel uneasy and unable to sleep for a long time
On a warm evening, she openly talked to her husband about her thoughts. The husband was stunned for a moment, and then apologetically patted her hand: 'Dear, I'm really sorry, I really overlooked these.'. From then on, she no longer had any worries in the bed.
When communicating with your husband, the key is not to use a critical tone or focus solely on their skills to criticize their shortcomings. A good way is to lead his hand to your sensitive area and ask him to touch but not stop him from doing what he is doing, as that will make him feel bored.
4. Let him know how happy you feel
Perhaps you have become accustomed to being a lady and are unable and embarrassed to indulge your emotions and desires in front of him. You are afraid of damaging your beautiful image in his mind. But don't forget to let him know in a timely manner that he makes you extremely happy. Not only does it increase his confidence, but he will also strive to do better.
When a woman kisses her husband, she should express her happy feelings and learn to sincerely praise her husband: you're great, I don't think anyone can replace you. In this way, even if you are not beautiful, your husband will still be infatuated with you.
5. Make sex fun
You and your husband are walking the long journey of life together. Think about it, has your sex brought vitality to each other's lives? Obviously, making sex enjoyable is what you and he have always longed for. In the past, when you were in bed, you always closed your eyes and tightened your muscles. Now, you might as well stretch your limbs and look at him with a smile, letting him know that you love him and love every inch of his skin; Why must it be in bed?
You can also change your environment, and perhaps that new place will make you passionate. Of course, through movies, books, other people's experiences, and years of experience, you constantly renovate and transform your ways and skills, so that love becomes a magnificent enjoyment.
You might as well tell him an interesting joke in bed; Pinching his nose like a little girl, mischievously begging for mercy How can your husband's lack of love arise naturally when faced with a peach blossom in your face? Next time it will be even better than this one.
Do you still remember the last feeling? Is it much better than the first time? With the accumulation of experience, there are more and more memories worth recalling. This is because during this process, you have learned to feel the pain and joy, and truly enjoyed the subtleties of sex. At this time, do you realize that you have become more mature?
Please believe that when you sincerely love each other and try to do better, perfect sex is by your side.