What are the factors that affect Orgasm? Sexual life is a very important part of couples' life, but many couples never care about how to do sexual health care. Wrong sexual behaviors lead to diseases. The factors affecting Orgasm are as follows:
1、 Performance of Orgasm
Physiological climax is the state when the sexual response reaches its peak, also known as Orgasm. A woman's Orgasm means that when the penis twitches and rubs to a certain extent in the vagina during sexual intercourse, Vaginal discharge are discharged in bursts, and the vulva is unusually smooth. Then suddenly, uncontrollable rhythmic contractions of the vagina and pelvic muscles occur, about once every 0 or 8 seconds, 3-4 times. With this contraction, special pleasure occurs. Many women have been married for many years without knowing whether they have reached an orgasm or not, and some husbands always hope that the woman will reach Orgasm with themselves, but how to identify women who have reached Orgasm, sometimes even they can't tell. Women's Orgasm in sexual activities has its obvious characteristics:
1. Before the arrival of Orgasm, some people will have sexual redness on their skin. This is due to the redistribution of blood, causing a sudden flow of blood to the surface of the body, resulting in congestion of superficial subcutaneous blood vessels. Sexual redness mainly occurs in the face, front chest, and breasts, and secondly, there may be congestion in the entire body's skin.
2. Muscle tension occurs. Due to increased muscle excitability, there is muscle tension in some parts of the body, ranging from involuntary to regular contractions. In Orgasm, muscle spasmodic contraction may occur, mainly manifested as hand and foot spasm, facial distortion or body twisting.
3. Breathing and heart rate increase. Due to the excitement of the central nervous system, blood pressure rises, Muscle contraction, aerobic metabolism accelerates, and the demand for oxygen increases, resulting in faster breathing and heart rate. During Orgasm, the number of breaths can reach 40 times/minute, sometimes accompanied by rhythmic groans; The heart rate has increased to 120 beats per minute, with some women even reaching as high as 150-160 beats per minute.
4. Feeling a change. When women reach Orgasm, some people will have blurred consciousness, vision and hearing loss, or even temporary syncope; Some women have decreased or disappeared taste and smell. It gradually returns to normal when entering a regression period.
5. During Orgasm, women's vaginal muscles, especially the muscles of the outer mouth of the vagina, will undergo obvious intense, powerful and pleasant contraction, which will play an obvious role in holding the penis. This contraction generally has 3 to 15 times, and it will shrink every 0 or 8 seconds, lasting for 2 to 4 seconds, or longer, and bring a high degree of self happiness. The contraction effect of vaginal muscles is particularly evident in women with good physical fitness and who have never given birth. Finally, the woman's pelvic floor will shake unconsciously (especially the vaginal levator muscle and the anal Sphincter), and in contrast, these muscles will consciously and consciously appear rhythmic contraction. Following this, the uterus undergoes rhythmic contractions, extending from the fundus of the uterus to the cervix. During the climax stage, muscle spasms occur more frequently and experience a longer duration. Some people describe it as a slight electric shock or a warm current flowing from the lower body to the whole body.
2、 Factors affecting Orgasm
1. Female physiological period, early and late pregnancy
During menstruation, the female Vaginal lubrication is neutralized by the menstrual blood to become alkaline, which becomes a good bacterial culture medium. At the same time, the endometrium falls off, there are wounds in the uterus, and the uterine orifice is slightly open, which is easy to bring bacteria into the same room, causing genital inflammation. If someone already has chronic pelvic inflammatory disease, sexual intercourse during menstruation can even cause acute attacks. Menstrual sexual intercourse can also exacerbate uterine congestion, leading to increased menstrual blood, prolonged menstruation, or worsening menstrual discomfort. During the first three months and late stages of pregnancy, sexual activity can stimulate the development of the fetus in the uterus, which can easily lead to miscarriage. Therefore, it is not recommended to have sex at this time.
Before and after menstruation, many women often have a strong sexual desire, and this period is different from other times due to the physiological period, which requires attention. In this way, it will be beneficial for reproductive health and women's sexual enjoyment.
When menstruation is approaching, women usually hope to have more sex, which can make up for the time lost during menstruation and arrange for the sexual activities they should enjoy in advance. Before the physiological period begins, it is a relative Calendar-based contraceptive methods, which is often the period when women want to have sex most. This arrangement meets both physiological and psychological needs. But this period is a special one after all, and it is necessary to accurately grasp the timing of menstruation. This is relatively easy to grasp for women who have always had accurate menstruation, while it is more difficult for women with irregular menstruation.
Before menstruation, special attention should be paid to reproductive health during sexual intercourse. As menstruation is approaching and infection is prone, attention should be paid to it. Especially for those with sexually transmitted diseases, such as certain infections such as Mycoplasma and Chlamydia trachomatis, attention should be paid to prevent upward infection, which can lead to diseases in organs such as the fallopian tubes. In addition, excessive exercise should be avoided during sexual activity to avoid damaging the vagina.
2. Existence of diseases such as reproductive tract infections or severe organic diseases
When both men and women suffer from sexually transmitted diseases, sexual activity should be suspended and timely co examination and treatment should be carried out to prevent the disease from worsening or recurring; Men with severe organic diseases, such as severe heart disease or severe tuberculosis infection, should also follow the doctor's advice and suspend sexual activity. To be honest, this is indeed a challenge to willpower, especially in the last day or two of the menstrual cycle. On the one hand, the menstrual blood volume has significantly decreased in these two days, which is often subjectively overlooked by couples; On the other hand, at this time, women's hormones increase and their sexual desire increases. The vigorous hormones also stimulate the man's passion. However, due to the fact that the cervix is still in a slightly dilated state and the endometrium is not fully repaired, leaving a wound surface, it is easy for bacteria to invade. In addition, endometrial debris that travels elsewhere due to the stimulation of beloved exercise may harbor the risk of endometriosis.
3. Not suitable for sexual activity when fatigued
Sexual activity requires a certain amount of physical and mental exertion. When mentally or physically exhausted, sexual activity often fails to reach orgasm, resulting in unsatisfactory outcomes for both parties. Especially after exhaustion, having sexual activity immediately can damage health and may leave a negative impression on future sexual activity. Lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual intercourse, fear of pain caused by sexual intercourse, or lack of understanding of sexual psychological differences between men and women. On the wedding night, the man acted rough and irritable, quickly reached Orgasm and ejaculated, but the woman did not experience pleasure, on the contrary, she felt discomfort or pain, even Vaginismus. Over time, it will become increasingly indifferent to sexual life. Poor living conditions, interference with sexual life, unpleasant mood and inattention are difficult to arouse Sexual arousal. The couple's feelings are not harmonious, distrust, suspicion or antipathy to each other, and can not produce Sexual arousal.
4. Not suitable for sexual activity when feeling unhappy
Reluctantly having sex when in a bad mood not only leads to disharmony, but also creates resentment towards the emotionally disadvantaged party; If it occurs repeatedly, it may lead to frigidity in the female partner or impotence in the male partner.
5. Not suitable for sexual activity after being drunk
After drinking alcohol, especially after consuming a large amount of strong alcohol, it can lead to a weak erection or premature ejaculation in the male partner, and at the same time, it can easily disgust the female partner, affect the quality of sexual life, and hinder sexual harmony.
6. Difficulty in sexual activity due to satiety or hunger
When satiated, the gastrointestinal tract is filled and congested, and the blood supply to the brain and other organs in the body is relatively insufficient. Therefore, it is not advisable to have sex just after eating. Similarly, when a person is hungry, their physical strength decreases and their energy is not sufficient. At this time, having sex is often not easy to achieve satisfactory results.