Post Date December, 02 2023
There are two sayings circulating among couples: "A small farewell is better than a new marriage" and "distance produces beauty". Therefore, many couples underestimate the ability to distance themselves and follow suit, resulting in the arrogance of separating from each other; But, you know what? 'Farewell' does not bring sweeter emotions than newlyweds, but it can leave a deep scar on the marriage and even trigger extramarital love.
Separation of husband and wife
For example, the husband is in a foreign land and needs to adapt to everything, with limited time and energy. In addition, the man's innate unwillingness to complain has caused him to fail to fulfill his original agreement. And the wife cannot understand the various hardships that her husband has encountered in a foreign land, and only listens to her one-sided words of reporting good news without worrying, which naturally leads to misunderstandings and suspicions towards her husband. At this point, the most important line of trust between couples living apart in two places is gradually beginning to "collapse", and further arguments indicate that the two have already had communication difficulties.
It is relatively easier for couples to resolve disputes and discord under the same roof, while not seeing each other in person reduces their sense of trust. Disputes between couples living separately from each other will be further exacerbated by the noise. Husbands may think that they are suffering here for the sake of their family, but they cannot understand and are also suspected, and they will feel very aggrieved; Wives may think that they are struggling to support themselves at home while their husbands are carefree there, feeling disappointed and frustrated. At this moment, both of them wanted to find a relationship around them, and the idea of an extramarital affair flashed into their hearts.
Usually, couples living apart in two places choose to temporarily separate in order to earn money and create better material conditions. But many couples who live separately do not divorce because of money, but because they cannot withstand the test of their relationship. Couples who choose to live separately should carefully weigh whether they value money or affection more in their marriage before making a decision.
In fact, the human heart is fragile, but when a person feels lonely, the most desired thing is to have a loved one by their side. However, at this time, the loved one is not there, and communication between the two parties becomes blocked over time. At this time, the intervention of a third party will appear natural. Morality and law will have no effect in the face of fragile and ever-changing human nature. Many couples who live separately end up having an extramarital affair with one or both partners.
