What does a woman do between husband and wife that makes a man look bad? These 5 things are crucial

The way for men and women to get along is to be careful with their words. Whether it's a couple or a couple, there are some "taboo minefields". Women should be careful of the following words that can instantly turn a man's face.

1. The conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law

Why is your mother doing this? How old are you? Your mother still cares about you? Don't you have any thoughts? Why do you listen to your mother for everything? You and your mother are not good people. Who will you save first when your mother and I fall into the river?

Analysis: Never criticize his mother face to face, because the position of mother is very important in a man's heart. Women should not try to replace their mother-in-law's position in the hearts of men, because her position in the hearts of men is unique. It is enough for men to see that you have been working hard to create a harmonious mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship. Unfortunately, women always feel dizzy in the mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship, ignoring the feelings of the man in the middle and forgetting the original intention of love, and relying on the man's favor to recklessly stir up love.

2. Questioning Husband's Ability

My colleague's husband has been promoted again. Do you think you don't have any abilities? Not as good as my ex boyfriend. If it weren't for your shameless pursuit of me by so many people back then, I wouldn't have married you such a loser.

Analysis: Women do not like men to compare themselves to their peers, and men do the same. Women may not mean to look down on men, but just want to stimulate them and vent their dissatisfaction. But once the words are spoken, the man's nature changes and his confidence is easily shattered by you. The consequence of this is that men need someone who can help them rebuild their confidence, and perhaps this is also the beginning of men's thoughts of cheating.

3. Inexplicable attack

Look at your impressive demeanor. Seeing a beautiful woman, her eyes are almost falling off. You think she looks better than me. Go find her! Do I think she can tolerate your nausea such as burping, farting, picking your nostrils, etc? I'll make do with you.

Analysis: Every man likes beautiful women, whether he admits it or not. Women will also peek at handsome guys when they see them. So, there is no need to mention the matter of men looking at beautiful women. Everyone has a love for beauty, who would reject it? This is human nature.

Everyone has two sides, no matter who comes home, they will take off their disguise and restore their true selves. Therefore, there will be no defense. And women using men's behavior at home as a reference for conversation can give men a sense of crisis of being betrayed, and from then on, they will no longer reveal themselves in front of women. As a result, the relationship will become weaker and the distance between their hearts will become farther and farther away.

4. Communicative relationships

Why does that woman always call you? What is your relationship? Who sent the text message just now, how did you delete it? Who did you call outside just now? Are you seeing a woman outside? Where did you spend all your money?

Analysis: Many women have the problem of checking their husband's mobile phone, and based on a hint, they exaggerate and play tricks, runs, sarcasm, coercion, and so on. It's only strange that men don't turn their backs. At the same time, such behavior is precisely the assistance that pushes men outward. Sadly, women themselves do not know. So sometimes men cheat and women are also responsible.

5. Sexual ability

A woman in bed says to a man, 'I find you're getting worse and worse. You're not a man, you're just a beast.'.

Analysis: There is nothing more embarrassing for a man than a woman suspecting his sexual ability. Women may have a different outcome if they say it politely. But when a woman speaks to a man in bed, he not only turns his back, but he probably won't be able to do it in the future. Just like even if a man does the most non man thing, he doesn't want a woman to say he's not a man. Perhaps he is troubled by his current situation, and at this point, the words of a woman will make him feel embarrassed and angry, and do things that are not done by men.

Therefore, when interacting with male and female friends, whether in love or marriage, one should pay attention to their words and actions. Some mistakes cannot be made, and once made, they may be a lifelong regret. There is no right or wrong between two people in love, no one leaves, no one abandons, no one regrets, only one doesn't know how to cherish, only one gives up, and should understand mutual trust, respect, and consideration for each other.