What do mature men have in common? Girls all like mature and stable men, so how can we become a mature man? The big man should keep his word and never contradict it. As a man, don't be obedient to the girl, so she will love you more! The following is a brief introduction to the top 10 criteria for measuring mature men!
1. Pay attention to promises
A mature man will never contradict himself. He attaches great importance to every promise he makes. Before making a wish, he should carefully consider whether his words can really be fulfilled. If he can, he will never say it, and he will keep it. His every word makes you feel at ease and trustworthy. Men who run trains with their mouths full, throw empty guns indiscriminately, and delay in taking action have nothing to do with maturity.
2. Broad-minded
Mature men don't haggle over every ounce, don't want small gains, don't care about small losses, don't complain about this and that. Their eyes are never blocked by trivial matters, and they are often "the first angel to turn back" for small disputes in the family.
3. Learned and reserved
They read books, accept new things and new information, and constantly enrich their connotation. But they don't make public. Their talents are only shown when necessary. They will never show off to satisfy vanity. They are like mellow wine. The more they taste, the more they taste.
4. Be brave to admit mistakes
Mature men are not stubborn, can accept different opinions, and are good at taking good suggestions. They have the courage to bear the consequences of their improper decisions and never find excuses to prevaricate.
5. Not self-centered
Mature men respect themselves and know how to respect others. They are good at thinking in a different position, will consider problems in the position of others, do not force others to accommodate themselves, and are good at cooperating with others. All "how am I" men, the typical little emperor temper, have not grown up.
6. Don't exaggerate
A mature man never talks casually. He will hold the appropriate silence and speak clearly but not loudly. Drink a little wine and then fill the table with your little experiences and stories. People in the room can hear them without speakers. This kind of man can make the audience laugh at most, and no one will take your colorful so-called "road to struggle" in mind.
7. Respect the old and love the young
Mature men have love, a sense of social responsibility and the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation. He will give his seat to the elderly and pregnant women, donate to the disaster-affected areas, help the out-of-school children, and donate blood voluntarily... They may not do all these things, but they will never do nothing.
8. Clean and tidy
Mature men respect their appearance. They have the most suitable hair style, clean chin, no stubble, no greasy face, and no long nails. Clothes don't have to be famous brands, but they are neat and generous, and won't be wrinkled like a courier. They will never wear black leather shoes with white socks and suits to travel.
9. Firm will
Mature men have the psychological quality of staying calm. Once they have determined their goal, they will work towards it. When they encounter setbacks, they will analyze the reasons, learn lessons, and correct the direction in time, but they will not retreat easily. They will be tired, but after the rest, they set off with confidence.
10. Have hobbies
They are not only robots who know about work, but also know how to use their hobbies to adjust their tense nerves. They work and relax at the same time, which makes them interesting. No wonder women say that men with hobbies are not easy to become bad.
The above are the top 10 criteria for measuring mature men. Mature men should learn to enjoy life, don't put all their energy on work, and spend more time with their wives and children. Such men have more "flavor" in their wives' hearts!