Post Date December, 03 2023
Love is often compared to a profound knowledge, but it must not be exaggerated. So, what are the camouflage techniques used in male relationships? How to master the love psychology and harvest the most stable love?
1. I don't need you
Mr. W has been a strong person all his life, and according to Mrs. W, he is even a bit tough. Don't even go to see a doctor with a wife; When shopping together, he always walks alone in front; "When my wife goes out on business, looking back at him, he always waves his hand and impatiently says, 'You go, I'm fine alone.'". After Mrs. W died of illness, Mr. W suddenly became much older. Two months later, he committed suicide.
Psychological Interpretation: It is generally believed that women are more vulnerable and more dependent. However, a Japanese psychological research institute has confirmed that in Japan, suicidal men are 1.32 times more likely than suicidal women, and girls are also far faster than boys in recovering from a breakup or loss of a spouse. The attitude of a man towards his other half is often that I don't need you, and I would have lived without you. In fact, however, they are hiding their deep dependence on each other. "I feel very sad without her, it's really humiliating!" That's what the man thinks.
2. Let's be inseparable
"Does he really love me? But it seems that every girlfriend he loves in this way." Xiao Wu was confused recently, when she accidentally learned that her boyfriend's past girlfriend also thought he was sticky. "My boyfriend wants to be with her for anything, even if she goes to work overtime on Sundays, and he has to wait in the coffee shop downstairs.". At first, Xiao Wu felt sweet, but gradually he felt dull and suffocated.
Psychological Interpretation: Some men will give up "I don't need you" and go to another extreme - wanting to be with you. This disguise usually occurs during the love or newly married stage. If you think he really loves you so much and doesn't want to part for a moment, it's a mistake. In fact, such a man has a strong possessive desire in love, and he hopes that you will always be in his sight not because of missing but because he is afraid that he does not know what you are doing.
3. I am strong and don't care if you recognize my strength
In ECHO's impression, my husband has always been confident in bed. After each event, he always asks ECHO to express his feelings. ECHO sometimes hesitates to say anything, because her feeling is really ordinary. At such a time, the gentleman would open his eyes and say, Isn't it good? Why do I feel so good every time, getting better every time. My husband has always sneered at ECHO's frequent complaints about the insufficient length and frequency of SEX. ECHO believes that the husband is too conceited and doesn't care what he says, so he increasingly jokes about his sexual abilities. The husband's attitude is still tough, but ML's enthusiasm is getting smaller and smaller.
Psychological Interpretation: Almost no man in the world is satisfied with his SEX ability, just as no woman is completely satisfied with her appearance. However, even if a man has ED, he will never admit that he can't. "The weather is not right," "My wife is not gentle," and other reasons. Getting him to admit that "I can't do it anymore" is a deadly matter. Although he always pretends not to care about it, it's best for women to understand that in bed, men care about women's feelings, and women's praise is almost all the motivation for his efforts
4. I am a familiar hand
"Never laugh at your boyfriend being a virgin, even if it's just a joke." LILY always remembers his childish behavior when he first got intimate with him. After the upgrade of their relationship, LILY joked that his husband was a virgin, and he blushed and argued with her, saying that LILY was just a rookie. A few months later, my husband's body broke down. The reason was that he wanted to accumulate more experience and not be looked down upon by LILY.
Psychological Interpretation: Another disguise for men on SEX is that I am a familiar hand. Boys over the age of 20 are already ashamed to admit that they are virgins, and they even boast in front of same-sex friends about how many girls they have slept with and had an N-hour marathon fight. Even if he had slept with only one girl before you, he would have shown confidence, understood how girls feel, and instructed you how to do it. Therefore, at this time, you must not laugh at his childishness, and follow his instructions.
5. My friends are all over the world
"On a rest day, if his mobile phone doesn't ring for a whole day, he will feel that his life is a failure."; "When friends eat together, he likes to answer their mobile phones the most. Even when there are insignificant calls, he should run to the side with a dignified expression to answer them, creating the impression of being constantly busy." Lulu dislikes these pompous little vanities of Mr. Liu, and asks friends around her. It seems that everyone's husband is so vain to dress up as a social expert.
Psychological Interpretation: In the era of the CALL machine, there is a joke that has been circulating for a long time about a male citizen. The CALL machine always doesn't ring, so I secretly use my office phone to call myself every day. "When I heard the beep of the CALL machine, I solemnly picked it up and looked at it. Sometimes I even told others, 'I hate it, but someone has an appointment for a drink at night.'". Men like to disguise themselves as social masters, because as they grow up, the image of their father is usually busy outside, and they come home late with a smell of alcohol and smoke every day. Making friends is a hallmark of successful men, so they often dress up as sociable to attract the attention of the opposite sex. At this moment, just smile, why expose him?
