Sexual Health
What are the taboos for sex education in children? Several things that children's sex education must not do
In China, mothers talk about sexual discoloration. Not to mention providing sex education to one's own children, this is a bad phenomenon. Today's editor will teach you how to educate children about sex!
How to provide sex education for children:
1. There is no need to taboo sensitive language
Psychologists suggest educating children about their first language of the body. Tell the child that their body is a natural treasure, and the penis and vagina are no different from other organs of the body. Regardless of their body shape and skin color, they are basically beautiful. This sound consciousness can lay the correct foundation for future sexual cognition in adolescence and adolescence.
2. Simple and direct, not mysterious
Answering children's sexual questions with a calm, honest, and natural attitude is crucial. The answer is simple, do not bring psychological pressure to the child to avoid causing abnormal sexual mystery and shame. For example, when answering questions from children aged 2 or 3 about what genitalia is, parents' attitude should be as natural as telling their children about their ears and eyes. When a child asks such a question, he doesn't want to know the sexual function of the genitalia, but he only wants to know the correct name. The more avoidance, the stronger the child's sense of sexual mystery and curiosity.
3. Easy and effortless, not serious 800
Guardians should not always want to shake all their knowledge on children during sex education, just like teachers do in class. The more serious and serious the parents' expressions when discussing sexual issues, the more it can make the child feel uncomfortable. It is actually a suitable time to encounter relevant scenes while watching TV, newspapers, and magazines.
When communicating sexual issues with children, equal and humorous kissing and teasing methods are appropriate. Make friends with your child and talk about the stories of your youth experiences. Your child is very interested and soon gets closer to you. You can tell your child about the things you have experienced. If you encounter a suitable topic, you may as well talk to your parents, making your child feel that sex is not an awkward thing.
When is sex education best?
When children ask questions, psychologists suggest that perhaps the first word spoken by the child's body has already been educated. Tell the child that their body is a natural treasure, and the penis and vagina are no different from other organs of the body. Regardless of their body shape and skin color, they are basically beautiful. This sound consciousness can lay the correct foundation for future sexual cognition in adolescence and adolescence. Usually, by the age of four or five, children are not only interested in their own bodies, but also want to know the bodies of others. When he sees that someone else's body is different from his own, he wants to know the reason. Clear explanations should be given for the various parts of the body and their functions, and the correct names should be given.