Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage needs to be managed, and in marriage, there will always be friction and even cracks between couples due to one thing or another. If we can prevent them in advance, then the marriage will not develop to an irreversible point! I believe that many men and women experience the following symptoms when experiencing emotional problems. Understanding these symptoms can help us identify problems in a timely manner and make up for our relationship.
1. Is it normal to stop talking sweet words
As is well known, sweet words to a wife, along with some teasing and teasing seasoning, and an opportunity to praise her, make the relationship between husband and wife easier to get along with. The way one speaks to their spouse is one of the elements that make up a harmonious relationship between husband and wife. There are many ways to express a meaning, depending on how you say it. If you are no longer interested in sweet talking to your partner, this is a bad signal.
2. One party is passionate about social activities
This is a common occurrence of problems in marital life, where both are very busy with social activities but find it difficult to arouse interest in the people around them. Both are busy attending various dances or gatherings with friends to avoid intimate contact between the two. When they are alone at home, they always keep the TV on and don't want to talk much.
3. The clothes worn during the date don't fit well
A study in the United States revealed that among 2500 interviewed women who claimed to have a disharmonious and unhappy marital relationship, the average person gained 54 pounds in the 10 years after marriage. For some women, gaining weight can increase their dominance and sense of achievement in the family, while for others, it can protect themselves from unnecessary sexual harassment. Of course, husbands may also have a significant decrease in interest in it.
4. Without gentle touch
There are many legitimate reasons for the decrease in sexual activity between couples, such as having a new child, high work pressure, mental stress, illness, etc. But if the other party remains indifferent for several months, the trouble will be even greater, indicating that an invisible wall has already separated your hearts. In the long run, home will no longer be home.
5. Shy to put a group photo of two people on the table
There are no group photos of you in the room, and even if there are, they are scattered among the debris piles under the bed, covered in dust. At this point, you need to reflect on yourself.
6. Waiting quietly for a day to leave
Sometimes I want to leave him. But I never dare to think too much because I don't know what others will think of me, which makes me feel very embarrassed. I have to blame myself for daydreaming and not paying attention to him. If you often have such thoughts, then your marriage is very dangerous.
7. The reluctance to spend long holidays with a partner
In fact, vacationing together at a tourist destination is an enviable beauty. But if you only choose a short vacation, it means you don't have the intention to stay with your partner for too long, and sometimes this is also a sign of a rift in your relationship.
8. Is it normal for the two of them to even argue
This is the worst sign, those couples who argue all day are actually more likely to live together than couples who are feeling suffocated. An argument at least indicates that you still have enthusiasm and the courage to communicate sincerely. And that lazy and indifferent silence is the biggest sign of divorce. There are two types of arguments between husband and wife: one is anger, which dissipates and everything is peaceful; The second is subtle, and at this point, it is irreparable.
(Intern: Lai Jiaxing)
