What are the sexual psychological disorders in older women? Needs sincere caress from the opposite sex

Although older women may have various psychological barriers, they always harbor a psychological tendency that is difficult for ordinary people to detect, that is, they need sincere caress from the opposite sex. At this point, if there are appropriate men who provide careful consideration and meticulous caress, they will surely ignite the deep flame of love and open their hearts. However, the true 'savior' is still the older women themselves. If they restrain themselves and deprive themselves of the right to love and be loved, it will only make the tree of life wither prematurely.

Inferiority complex. This type of woman believes that it is shameful to be alone in the boudoir after the age of 30. Therefore, they are most afraid of others discussing marriage, and are also most afraid of others asking about their marriage in a caring tone. They are pessimistic and disappointed with themselves, thinking that love will never come again, and they will never have a chance with love again. They either gradually close their hearts and do not pursue, even if the true man arrives, they will "knock ten times and nine times cannot open"; Either go to the other extreme, succumb to the pressure and influence of society, parents, and friends, adopt a follow the crowd approach, and hastily find a partner to make do. Closed mind. This type of woman is inherently unsociable and unwilling to take a proactive attitude towards marriage issues. She even refuses to interact with colleagues who have been married and confines herself in a personal niche. She enjoys being alone and has a very narrow range of social interactions.

This mentality actually greatly reduces their chances of choosing a partner. Their mentality of waiting for volunteers to take bait only makes them particularly "elevated" and also makes a considerable number of men who are interested in them hesitant. Moreover, marriage is a two-way choice. If we keep our hands on it and turn it into a one-way street, wouldn't it be like we suddenly lose half of our chances? Reverse psychology. Some older women have lost many opportunities due to excessive demands in choosing a partner in the past, and should learn from them to become more realistic. However, they instead set higher standards and believe that 'until now, I cannot be laughed at', which makes them more 'selective' and must meet their ideal requirements. They idealize love and lack a sense of reality. They always hope that their love is as romantic as that described in the novel: when the moon is clear and the wind is clear, prince charming suddenly falls from the sky; Love at first sight, the flower of love suddenly miraculously shines brightly. It should be noted that marriage is about living a real life and choosing a partner with a down-to-earth attitude. Why waste your youth in your dreams?