What are the secrets to a harmonious and fulfilling sexual life for couples? The secrets that couples must know to make sexual life harmonious and fulfilling

Now, the era of emphasizing the pursuit of "gender equality". People say that the sexual physiological response of women, like that of men, roughly has four stages: excitement, ascent, orgasm, and end. Orgasm is a systemic reaction and activity caused by extreme excitement in the central nervous system, including tense muscles throughout the body, rhythmic contraction of vaginal muscles, and even involuntary tightening of pelvic muscles; The heartbeat can reach 180 times per minute; Increase systolic and diastolic blood pressure by 20-50mm mercury columns, respectively; Sweating all over the body, etc. At the moment of high happiness, it's like being thrown into a room or feeling confused, which is really great.

Due to the same sexual physiological reactions between men and women, some people believe that women should always be "passive" throughout the entire process of sexual activity. In order to make sexual life harmonious and perfect, it is necessary to promote "gender equality". This view is actually a biased formalism, which does not conform to the characteristics of male and female reproductive organs. Therefore, the one-sided pursuit of "gender equality" in sexual life is due to the following reasons:

Male dominated sexual methods are more likely to stimulate two people's "sexual" interests

As is well known, men's muscles are strong, while their reproductive organs are characterized by intense aggression. If men lose this characteristic, the sexual process cannot be completed. In contrast, women's muscles are soft, their reproductive organs are loose, and they are easy to accommodate. Psychologically speaking, men have a rougher, more competitive, and more aggressive personality; And women are more refined, tolerant, and adaptable. From these characteristics, men should also be in an attacking position, while women should be in a defensive position. In the sexual life of couples, male aggression and female defense are common sexual styles, and in addition to being influenced by traditional culture, their physiological and psychological factors cannot be ignored.

The satisfaction of sexual life lies in how to play the role of a husband

Due to the dominant role played by men in sexual life, the husband's behavior is related to the actual issue of whether two individuals can achieve orgasm, provided that the wife can happily accept and cooperate with each other. At this point, the husband's sexual knowledge and cultivation level will affect the entire process of sexual life. For example, before the wife's sexual arousal stage arrives, the husband should be patient and know that sex is not just "intercourse", but a fusion of "spirit and flesh". At the beginning, husbands can use hugs, kisses, touch, touch, and gentle words to stimulate women's sexual desire and passion, rather than violent movements to drive women to higher levels of sexual excitement.