Post Date December, 03 2023
In this era of rampant materialism and the prevalence of mistresses, if men are reliable, pigs will climb trees. But why do you say that? Because people are separated from each other, sometimes don't hold too high hopes for others. Otherwise, there will always be disappointment. Just like a mistress, always so delusional, trying to monopolize all kinds of limelight, who knows, in the end, there was no dream. So what are the reasons why Xiao San Dou couldn't be a legitimate wife?
Firstly, the man did not initially intend to become a regular junior
The reason why men look for a mistress but do not want to do so is revealed: many men do not initially consider becoming a regular when looking for a mistress. If a man's wife is more powerful and capable, he is even less likely to abandon his wife. At best, it's just an extra love for someone. For men, they are all visual animals, but there are more likes and dislikes. For the mistress, the man has already experienced the constraints of marriage, and looking for the mistress is originally to relieve boredom and reduce depression. So I will definitely not value the delusions of my mistress. Because men understand better that once a mistress becomes a regular, marriage may not be as good as it is now. So, the man didn't want to become a regular with the other party.
Secondly, a legitimate wife is often a man's partner in times of difficulty
A legitimate wife is often a partner in times of difficulty for men. Even though a legitimate wife may seem ugly, she has shared joys and sorrows with a man. Especially if the legitimate wife gives birth to a child to a man, and the child is very promising, then such a family is relatively stable. In this situation, a legitimate wife will only make the man feel bored, but it is still not possible for the man to leave the other party. For men, a mistress is a consumer good, while a wife is a necessity. When the economy is struggling, it's still better to have necessities. So, the mistress is often inferior to his wife in this regard.
Again, the mistress is always invisible, while the legitimate wife is widely recognized
China is quite traditional. If everyone knows who has become a mistress, they will definitely despise this woman very much. Unlike a legitimate wife, she has a legal status. Even if a man no longer loves her, as long as there is no divorce, she represents the man to a certain extent. With a legitimate wife, the mistress will always have to hide and tuck away. Once the incident with the third child is exposed, the good times between the man and the third child will be gone forever. Both the mistress and the man deeply understand this matter. So when we are together, we are particularly good to our mistress. But in the end, it often hurts Xiao San thoroughly.
Finally, the third child lacks the courage to conceive or have a child without marriage
Many mistresses have the courage to conceive or have children without marriage. For men, children are still crucial to themselves. For women, if their identity is not clear, the child will also be despised and discriminated against in the future. So mistresses often choose not to have children. In such a situation, it will lead to a serious decline in the competitiveness of the third party. She cannot compare with her wife, she has always valued her mother and son since ancient times. In the war between the mistress and his wife, the same applies.
There are many intelligent and wise women in the world, and liking someone doesn't necessarily mean becoming a mistress. Only by maintaining distance is the most beautiful emotion. But unfortunately, many women cannot resist the temptation and eventually become men's playthings, losing to their wives.
