Post Date November, 16 2024
Some people do not actively avoid sexual intercourse, but they cannot make appropriate sexual responses during sexual intercourse, lack pleasure, or the pleasure is not obvious or satisfactory. Some women may not even know what sexual pleasure is and have never experienced the sensation of orgasm.
The proportion of women who have never experienced or rarely experienced orgasm varies greatly in different countries and regions, ranging from 10% to 90%. In most places, over 25% of women have experienced or still experience sexual apathy. Only a few women can achieve orgasm almost every time they have sexual intercourse, and about half of women have had some experience of not achieving orgasm. Some women do not adapt to life during their first marriage, and therefore feel unhappy or dissatisfied, which is not considered frigidity. Because over time, the sexual life of couples gradually becomes harmonious, and the pleasure experience will increase. Only when there has been no sexual desire, or if there is sexual desire, but the pleasure cannot be generated for a long time or is very weak, and therefore not interested in sexual life, is sexual apathy.
Six psychological factors of female frigidity
Firstly, due to factors such as inadequate childhood education, psychological trauma caused by sexual harassment, religious influence, or adult role models, prejudice towards sexual life is formed. For example, the belief that sexual intercourse is dirty, lewd, and impure behavior is a sin, and that "men are happy, women suffer" leads to feelings of disgust, disgust, and fear towards sexual life.
Secondly, lack of sexual knowledge, fear of sexual intercourse, fear of pain, or lack of understanding of sexual psychological differences between men and women. On the night of the wedding, the man's movements are rough and impatient, and he quickly reaches orgasm and ejaculates, but the woman does not experience pleasure. On the contrary, he also feels discomfort or pain, and even produces vaginal spasms. Over time, it will become increasingly indifferent to sexual life.
Thirdly, concerns and fears about pregnancy, as well as the lack of reliable contraceptive measures, suppress normal sexual satisfaction and can also lead to sexual apathy.
Fourthly, poor living conditions can interfere with sexual activity, making it difficult to stimulate sexual excitement due to unpleasant mood and lack of focus.
Fifth, the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious, with mutual distrust, suspicion, or aversion, which prevents sexual excitement.
Sixth, if the female partner has a serious masturbation habit, the pleasure during sexual intercourse after marriage is not strong enough, or if the male partner has sexual dysfunction such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, the female partner cannot obtain sexual satisfaction..
