What are the reasons for the lack of orgasm? These psychological factors most affect sexual health

The issue of psychological arousal of female sexual health is becoming increasingly acute in society! Women who have sexual desire or do experience sexual pleasure but cannot achieve orgasm are medically referred to as lacking orgasm. It is not an isolated phenomenon. So what are the psychological factors that cause female sexual health? Below, the editor will answer for you.

(1) Organic reasons

Among organic causes, the first refers to diseases of the reproductive system, such as diseases of the external genitalia, vagina, uterus and its appendages, bladder, urethra, pelvic inflammatory disease, tumors, trauma, etc., which can cause pain and discomfort during sexual intercourse, thus inhibiting the occurrence of orgasm. In addition, diseases of various systems throughout the body can inhibit and interfere with sexual responses to varying degrees, disrupting the achievement of orgasm.

(2) Psychological reasons

Foreign scholars have conducted research on a large number of women who lack orgasm and found that over 95% of patients are caused by psychological factors, which mainly refer to:

① Women are educated throughout childhood, adolescence, and adulthood to suppress sexual activity, requiring them to suppress sexual arousal or behavior. Many sex psychologists point out that in modern civilized societies, women's sexual responses are often constrained. Women in civilized society cannot allow their sexual reactions to flow naturally and strongly like in primitive society. Some are full of hypocrisy and lack of scientific sex education, which leads to many women being ignorant or misunderstood about sex knowledge.

For example, it seems that 'decent women' should only have children and should not show a pursuit of sexual pleasure. The ideal 'master's demeanor' is to suppress oneself during sexual intercourse, be passive and shy, which all hinder women's sexual life and prevent them from achieving orgasm.

② Traumatic experiences in childhood or adolescence, such as incest, can also lead to a lack of orgasm.

③ Disturbance from external environment, such as inadequate living space and fear of being seen by children or outsiders; Bed discomfort, strong light or noise; Difficulties in work, personnel disputes, financial difficulties, and worrying about household chores can all be reasons for a lack of orgasm.

④ The marital relationship is not harmonious. There is a lack of emotional communication, mutual distrust, or differences in sexual views between couples. These not only harm emotions, but also make it difficult to make sexual life harmonious.

⑤ Distraction of attention. Some women during sexual activity are afraid that their behavior will harm their dignity and they are afraid of losing their husband's favor, so they excessively pay attention to their appearance, words, and husband's reactions; Or constantly recalling past events; Or worry about getting pregnant, etc. This kind of distraction can affect the development of the sexual cycle and hinder the arrival of orgasm.

Life is monotonous. Its main manifestations are: the man's individual control of sexual activity throughout and in a certain way, during sexual intercourse, the man only considers himself without considering the woman's sexual physiological characteristics, the woman is eager for sexual intercourse before he has sexual desire, and the woman ejaculates before reaching orgasm; The woman reluctantly deals with the other party, often treating it as an obligation, as a last resort; The woman does not understand her own structure, knows nothing about sex, and does not know which type of sexual activity she likes; The woman cannot express her favorite touch methods, sexual positions, and duration to her husband during sexual activity.

These women often believe that women should not talk about how to have sex, and they are afraid that it will make their husbands unhappy and unhappy. These women often believe that women should not talk about how to have sex, and they are afraid of making their husbands unhappy, so they obey their husbands' orders in everything.

⑦ Operational anxiety. Many women worry about not having an orgasm as soon as they have sex, and the more worried they become, the less likely they are to have an orgasm.

Sexual health

Sexual health and sexual health care are both ancient and fashionable issues, but what is sexual health and how to achieve it have different understandings and standards in different eras and societies. There is still no scientific and authoritative explanation yet. Our medical experts, psychologists, and sociologists still have a immature understanding of sexual issues.

Individual sexual health standards include three aspects: sexual physiological health, sexual psychological health, and sexual behavioral health.

1. Physiological health: Having normally developed reproductive organs and secondary sexual characteristics; Normal reproductive system function; Have good hygiene habits and maintain a healthy reproductive system.

2. Psychological health: Sexual psychological health refers to the healthy formation of sexual psychology; Having a healthy gender identity; Treat various sexual issues with a normal mindset.

3. Behavioral health: Sexual health refers to sexual behavior that conforms to social norms; Comply with the moral requirements of sexual behavior; The social responsibility of fulfilling sexual behavior.

Psychological standards

Sexual and psychological health must meet the following four conditions:

1、 It is an individual's physical and mental belonging, with a clear contrast. If yin and yang are indistinguishable, it is difficult to engage in healthy sexual behavior and achieve happy love.

2、 It is an individual who has good sexual adaptation, including self adaptation and heterosexual adaptation, that is, being able to accept their own sexual characteristics and desires, and getting along well with the opposite sex.

3、 It treats both genders equally and should not artificially create division, discrimination, or prejudice. Have a clear understanding of all sexual ignorance, biases, and fallacies that have been formed due to various historical reasons and are contrary to science, understand and pursue sexual civilization.

4、 Being able to enjoy sexual life naturally and with high quality.

Sexual mental health, as a part of physical and mental health, is closely related to a person's physical structure, physiological function, psychological quality, and social adaptation. Therefore, the factors that affect sexual mental health are also multifaceted. One is the quality of parents, to a considerable extent, genetic and embryonic development determine the physical and mental condition; Secondly, I have a certain level of control and responsibility for my physical and mental development since I became sensible; The third is the education of family and society. Those who live in a scientific and civilized society and family environment are often able to naturally, independently, and joyfully approach and treat sex. However, in a family or social environment where sexual intercourse turns pale, people are forced to develop a dirty, mysterious, and ignoble mentality towards sex. This unnatural mental state often distorts human nature by contradicting and resisting natural life needs. This not only leads to unhealthy sexual psychology, but also has adverse effects on a person's life.