Most men do not cheat in order to get better sex from a more beautiful woman. In most cases, it's just to fill the emotional void. Therefore, wives should strive to make their relationship sweeter and closer, pay more attention to their husbands in daily life, and encourage and affirm their sexual life.
12% of cheating men believe that their lover is better than their wife
In the survey, Newman reviewed some reports on the reasons for male infidelity in the past and found that most of the answers came from the perspective of his wife. He thought, if asked men, would they get a more truthful answer? To this end, he conducted an on-site investigation of 200 men who had had and had not had an affair to find the true reason for their infidelity. The following conclusions were drawn:
1。 68% of men feel guilty when they cheat.
Newman pointed out that 68% of men who cheat never thought they would be unfaithful, and they almost all hope they haven't cheated. But obviously, guilt cannot stop a man from cheating.
2。 Among men who cheat, 77% have a friend who also has an affair.
Staying with friends who have had infidelity for a long time can make men feel that infidelity is a normal thing. His subconscious told him: My friend is a good person, but he happened to betray his wife, and even the best man is bound to cheat. Therefore, as a wife, it is important to let her husband go to bars less, socialize less with people who have affairs, engage in outdoor activities more, make friends with people from happy families, and create an environment that protects marriage.
3。 48% of men believe that emotional dissatisfaction is the primary reason for their infidelity.
Newman said, "Actually, men are also emotional animals. They want to be appreciated by their wives and also want women to understand the efforts they put in to do everything well." The problem is that unlike women, men rarely express these feelings. So, often praise and show consideration to your partner, making them feel like you need them, care about them, and care about them. Of course, physical satisfaction cannot be lacking, as 8% of men say dissatisfaction with their desires is the main reason for their infidelity.
4。 Only 12% of men who cheat believe that their lover is more attractive than their wife.
That is to say, most men do not cheat in order to get better sex from a more beautiful woman. In most cases, it's just to fill the emotional void. Therefore, wives should strive to make their relationship sweeter and closer, pay more attention to their husbands in daily life, and encourage and affirm their sexual life.
5。 40% of men meet another woman at work.
Usually, the target of a man's infidelity is a woman in the office who admires him, respects him, and praises his efforts, "Newman said, which is another important reason to make him feel valuable at home.
6。 Among men who cheat, 6% have sexual intercourse on the day they meet another woman.
73% of men only cheat after meeting another woman for more than a month. This means that you can prevent everything from happening before he betrays you. Common signals include: he is spending more and more time away from home, he no longer seeks pleasure from you, he travels more frequently, he will hang up on your phone, etc. Don't directly question him, it's best to use your own behavior to guide him to change and lead your relationship back on track, such as praising him, saying you love him, and telling him how you feel about this relationship.