What are the psychological factors of male impotence? Does disharmony between husband and wife also lead to impotence

Men lack confidence

For example, I worry too much about my "short penis" and think that it is not as big as others, and I'm afraid I can't meet my wife's sexual requirements; Or overemphasize the husband's responsibility for his wife's sexual satisfaction, and think that if he can't meet his wife's needs once, it is his fault; Or they have poor psychological quality. When they are slightly blamed by their wives in the process of sexual life, they will take it seriously. They can't get rid of this psychological pressure when they have sex next time. For those wives who are "strong", this situation is relatively more common for husbands.

2、 The doctor's wrong explanation

Some doctors, in order to increase their income, or the medical level is too poor, said that the patients were sent away "kidneys" as "very difficult to cure". Therefore, the patients worried about their kidneys all day, and there seemed to be no cure. This will lead to erectile difficulties. In addition, some patients are worried about other diseases or "sequelae" of sexually transmitted diseases, impotence in sexual life and so on. In fact, the psychological factors mentioned here are only part of it. In practical work, specific problems need to be treated separately.

3、 Lack of correct sexual knowledge

Due to the strict requirements of parents on sex in the family; Or the emotional discord between parents; Or parents, in their children's youth development, not only do not have proper sex education, but also are always shy of answering their children's sexual questions, leading to their wrong sexual habits, thinking that this is a low-level thing, causing them to have excessive psychological pressure.

Because the harm of secular masturbation is exaggerated, those normal sexual release behaviors are called moral funerals, which make them bear the psychological burden; Or they are stimulated by unhealthy information such as pornographic books, periodicals, videos and CDs, which misleads people to pay too much attention to sexual ability, causing psychological pressure, etc. These conditions may lead to impotence.

4、 Disharmony between husband and wife

If the first sexual intercourse fails, the wife is dissatisfied with her husband, making the husband and wife uncoordinated and the husband unhappy; Or because the woman has a third party, the husband is hostile to his wife; Or the man has an affair, lacks love for his wife, and the woman does not arouse the sexual excitement of her husband. These are the psychological factors that lead to impotence.

Psychological adjustment methods of psychological impotence

Eliminate psychological factors. Fully understand the influence of sexual knowledge and mental factors on sexual function. Correctly treat "sexual desire", which cannot be regarded as invisible things, disgust and fear; Don't be depressed and worried because of one or two sexual failures and lack confidence; Couples should increase emotional communication, eliminate disharmonious factors, and cooperate in tacit agreement. Women should care about, touch and encourage their husbands, try to avoid dissatisfaction, and avoid causing mental stress to their husbands; Sexual concentration; Especially at the peak of sexual pleasure, ejaculation is about to occur, and more concentration.