On gender issues, when we talk about extramarital affairs, most of the spearheads will be directed at men. However, in modern society, it is also common for many women to think that they cannot withstand temptation and cheat. So, what are the dangers of female infidelity? Let's take a look at the summary.
1. Destroy the marriage and family of others.
Originally, it was a happy and happy family. Due to the involvement of a woman as a third party, the family became restless. The mistress of the family may cry, make trouble, hang herself, or resolutely divorce her husband. A woman engaged in extramarital affairs, which broke up a good family. Women who engage in extramarital affairs are a shameful third party and the main culprit in disrupting others' marriages and families.
2. Damage your husband's reputation.
As a big man who cannot control his own wife, leading to a red apricot coming out of the wall, he may feel that he has lost his dignity and cannot hold his head up in front of others, resulting in a loss of initiative. Individual men with fragile emotions may also lose the courage to behave. I used to have a nephew of a comrade in arms who went to Hainan Island with his newly married wife to raise chickens. Later, he returned to the mainland alone and asked his wife to continue raising chickens on the island. I reminded him, "Are you so confident with your wife? Be careful that she ran away with someone else." He said, "No way." Unfortunately, as I said, his wife soon eloped with a young man. The nephew of his comrade in arms felt ashamed and killed himself by drinking pesticide in a fit of anger. Although there was no inevitable causal relationship between the woman's extramarital affair and her husband's death, it was a direct cause. The conversation between San'er and a man.
3. Have a negative impact on children.
Parents are the first teachers of their children. Parents' words and actions can have a subtle impact on their children, even affecting their children's lifetime. A woman who is passionate about engaging in extramarital affairs will sooner or later be detected by her children. Children either learn from their mothers, grow up and even haven't grown up to engage in extramarital affairs like mothers, or "draw a line" with their mothers, despise and despise their mothers, and never call them mothers again.
Therefore, for extramarital affairs, any family must be careful to face it, regardless of which party except for the problem, do not assume that blame the other party, because marriage is originally a matter of two people. If you really want to save your marriage and reduce its harm, you must learn tolerance and understanding.