Sexual Health
What are the common misconceptions in sexual life? Is there a relationship between the quality of sexual life and frequency
Post Date December, 03 2023
A survey showed that in a survey of 1279 couples in 31 large and medium-sized cities (based on this survey), 78% of wives prioritize love over sex. Compared to the quality of sexual life (how much orgasm a wife can get from it), 85% of wives prefer to achieve high quality rather than large quantities.
Men's sexual practices are also not very good. Between the ages of 30 and 35, more than half of husbands experience a subtle change in their sexual needs, shifting from requiring a large quantity to seeking high quality, hoping for deeper emotional communication and experience.
If men conceptually believe that sexual frequency is the main measure, or even the only criterion, of marital harmony, they are likely to make two behavioral mistakes.
Firstly, he may overlook or deny his wife's emotional needs, simplify sexual life into a series of actions, and in severe cases, greatly harm her personality and emotions.
Secondly, he may invisibly increase his psychological burden. As he grew older, he encountered special circumstances and was unable to maintain the high frequency he believed. He suspected himself of suffering from erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, was afraid of apologizing to his wife, doubted his personality and life goals, and was disappointed. After all, the stronger the situation, the more unbearable accidents become.
In fact, the frequency of male sexual activity is basically determined by their physiological condition and age. Almost all ethnic groups in the world are the same, and almost all men have very little time and a lot of time in their lives. It cannot be said that there should be several times this problem occurs. The sexual charm of men mainly lies in their mature personality and appearance, their understanding of people's broad emotions, and their profound attachment to emotions. If men do not pay attention to these aspects of cultivation and only care about and exaggerate the frequency, it is difficult for them to get rid of misunderstandings about sexual life.
