Post Date November, 17 2024
1. Fear of not knowing when women need more stimulation
When making love, my wife usually caresses herself with her own hands, and sometimes I also use my hands to help her caress. But when she pushes away my hand, it really makes me confused
In fact, most men do not have much understanding of the physiological structure of women, so you should give them guidance: try not to use language as much as possible, but use your fingers to guide them. You can hold their hands and guide them to make movements that make you feel happy.
2. Fear of not being strong enough during sex
Men over the age of 30 usually experience this fear, as sexual excitement decreases after the age of 30. If he sometimes encounters situations that are not sufficiently 'hard', the problem will become even more serious as soon as you speak. The best solution is to fully caress him with your hands.
3. Afraid of her pretending to climax
Some women may disguise orgasm. It's equivalent to saying polite things to others, but in fact, the two are different. You shouldn't pretend to have an orgasm. You can say, "I'm sorry, because I'm too tired. In fact, my close contact with you has already made me very satisfied
4. Fear lasts for a short time
If a man has sex for only a few minutes. Not only will he be dissatisfied himself, but he is also more afraid of his partner being dissatisfied. Both men and women know that women need a longer time to be excited. It also takes a long time to reach orgasm and requires a certain amount of afterplay time.
If he can't last that long, then increase the time for foreplay and afterplay. Or add some new ingredients to sex, it won't be fun.
5. Afraid of women being concerned about size
Men's concerns about the size of their genitals. The concern about breast size is equally strong among women.
If you ignore this issue, you are completely silent about it. It has helped him overcome his fear. When having sex, you just need to tell him that you feel good. His sexual confidence will increase and he will appreciate your consideration.
