Post Date November, 17 2024
Women sometimes experience sexual apathy, which often makes men feel uneasy. It can even affect the relationship between the two. In fact, in order to reverse a woman's frigidity, one must first find the reason for her frigidity in sexual life, so as to eliminate it based on the original reasons.
1、 What are the ways to solve women's frigidity
1: Find out the reason
Many girls who claim to be 'frigid' do not really need it, but rather have a psychological resistance. The vast majority of girls cannot obtain pleasure in their first life because it hurts too much. This situation may bring psychological shadows to her. So, if she refuses to have sex because she is afraid of pain, then you need to establish the correct sexual values for her and make her understand that sex is a thing that can make life more wonderful. If she has developed a strong resistance to sex itself due to past sexual assault, then you can suppress your endless desire and try to gently and romantically open her heart knot. After all, the love between husband and wife is deep, the day is long, the night is long, and we slowly enjoy it.
2: The pleasure of having sex
If she didn't resist, it's likely because she couldn't appreciate the pleasure of sex and instead made it a duty for her girlfriend. Under the influence of this idea, when you watch a romantic film together, what comes to mind is how to imitate the posture and posture inside, while what comes to mind is how to imitate the expression of the female protagonist during orgasm inside. That is to say, you must make her realize that having sex can make two people happy together, and this is not just a unilateral effort.
3: Warming up therapy
If she doesn't have fear and doesn't take sex as an obligation, then you can teach her to experience the beauty of sex on her own through masturbation. Although many girls find it difficult to connect masturbation with treatment, it is actually an ideal treatment method. Because in this situation, the girl will enter a completely relaxed state without any burden. She doesn't need to cater to the needs of others. She can have her own sexual fantasy and begin to understand her own body. After experiencing orgasm through masturbation, she can understand that the satisfaction and pleasure brought by orgasm are the ideal "medicine" for treating low libido.
4: Love film
Masturbation only helps her understand that it can bring sexual beauty to herself, which is not the same as what you bring to her. Based on this consideration, you need to show her a romantic film. The principle of watching is: select some images that she accepts and is interested in, let her participate in the role through sexual fantasy, regard this as a sexual experience, and re stimulate her repressed sexual instinct. Don't show her those heavily flavored pornographic films, the plot and difficult techniques inside will scare her.
5: Is it your problem
If she doesn't resist having sex and knows what she needs, but still can't keep up with you, then you need to explore the reasons from within. Perhaps it's because you don't have enough skills in bed, your expression is like a zombie, you look like a crowd actor in a budget movie, you don't understand what sex is, your actions are single, and you don't have a sense of rhythm... So, you may need to carefully study her sexual sensitivity zone and understand her identification and desire for sex. Alternatively, ask her to tell you the expected actions.
6: Simple massage method
Give her a massage. Here are mainly massage sensitive areas, such as the ears, neck, inner thighs, armpits, breasts, nipples, etc. In addition, you also need to massage her waist, Shenque acupoints, and other areas.
7: Dietary and pharmacological therapy
Have some dietary therapy. For example, acacia honey or acacia propolis. It is collected from natural acacia pollen and has a significant effect on female patients with sexual frigidity. In fact, new drugs for resolving frigidity have been emerging on the market. Australian researchers have invented a supplement called DHEA, which can make candlelight dinners, chocolate, and oysters look inferior.
What are the ways to solve women's frigidity
The causes of female frigidity are often different from those of men's frigidity. Female frigidity sometimes includes factors such as their own diseases or emotional factors. Therefore, understanding the causes of female frigidity can better improve it.
2： Causes of female frigidity
Drug effects
Dr. Michael Crichman, a sexual medicine expert in California, said that oral contraceptives, antihypertensive drugs, anxiety medications, acid suppressants, and antidepressants can all affect women's libido. Suggest clarifying the side effects of medication and adopting non hormonal contraceptive measures.
Busy life
Multiple roles at home and outside, as well as modern life pressures, can lead to changes in female hormone levels, disrupt the sexual response cycle, and affect sexual desire. Los Angeles sexologist Dr. Linda DeViller suggests that arranging your life reasonably, taking a hot bath, and more can help relieve stress, relax your body and mind, and improve sexual life for couples.
Body shape deviation
Becoming overweight or pregnant can lead to a change in body shape, which can cause psychological pressure on women and subsequently affect sexual pleasure. Dr. Deviler suggests that actively exercising to lose weight can help increase one's sexual recognition and increase libido.
To menopause
Before menopause, estrogen levels decrease, leading to an impact on sexual activity. At this point, the lubrication of vaginal tissue is worse, causing pain due to dryness, which in turn makes women afraid of having sex. Suggest discussing the pros and cons of hormone replacement therapy with a doctor. If the vagina is dry and astringent, estrogen ointment or suppository, or lubricant can be used.
Fade sexual interest
Dr. Bob Berkowitz, an American sexologist, said that a husband's lack of sexual interest can also lead to a wife's sexual desire disorder. Suggest that couples communicate and discuss strategies, avoiding accusations or doubts. For men, 'sexual negation' is equivalent to 'total negation'.
Suffering from depression
Clayton stated that depression can lead to a sudden decrease in sexual interest. Some antidepressants can help improve sexual activity, but some drugs can make it difficult to achieve orgasm. Suggest considering psychotherapy and receiving expert guidance to improve physical and mental health, which can promote blood flow to the genitalia.
Aphrodisiac aids
The husband can engage in sexual activity at any time by taking sex aids, but the wife's sexual arousal takes longer, and the contrast in sexual desire between husband and wife is greater, which can easily lead to female sexual desire being frustrated. Clayton suggests that couples open their hearts to discuss and communicate with each other, enhance mutual understanding, and improve the quality of sexual intercourse.
Excessive masturbation
Proper masturbation can contribute to physical and mental health, but excessive masturbation can bring great harm to the human body. Dr. Deviler stated that the correct use of sex can help improve sexual sensitivity, but excessive use can reduce sensitivity to sexual stimuli, leading to a lack of sexual intensity in couples, and ultimately leading to loss of sexual interest. Experts suggest that the use of sex tools should be limited.
Entangled by illness
Some women's low libido is caused by endocrine problems such as the thyroid gland. Diseases such as fibromyoma, anemia, diabetes and rheumatoid arthritis can affect mood, leading to fatigue or pain. Experts suggest paying attention to the symptoms of the disease, treating it as soon as possible, eliminating fatigue and discomfort, and restoring healthy sexual activity.
Causes of female frigidity
Many people believe that the harm of female frigidity lies only in the couple and the two, and it can also have an impact on sexual life. But research has shown that female frigidity can also lead to female related diseases.
3： Sexual apathy harms women
1. Female frigidity causes breast swelling and pain
When women enter sexual excitement, breast congestion increases. When they reach orgasm, their breasts increase by 1/4 compared to usual. After sexual satisfaction, the periodic changes of breast congestion, swelling, and regression are beneficial for promoting blood circulation inside the breasts.
Sexual apathy objectively suppresses sexual desire for a long time, resulting in insufficient sexual satisfaction, making the congestion and swelling of the breasts difficult or incomplete to subside. Persistent swelling can cause breast pain and discomfort.
2. Female frigidity promotes lobular hyperplasia
Research has found that frigidity or disharmony in sexual life are important triggering factors for breast lobular hyperplasia. Depression, loneliness, and anxiety caused by adverse mental stimulation are the "catalysts" for breast lobular hyperplasia. Individuals with frigidity are psychologically suppressed for a long time, leading to endocrine disorders and lack of regulation. Over time, they are prone to breast lobular hyperplasia.
3. Female frigidity induces breast cancer
Some data show that among breast cancer patients, the proportion of elderly unmarried women with low sexual function and widowed women is significantly higher than that of other groups. This suggests that the risk of breast cancer for women without normal sex life and frigidity is greatly increased. Women with long-term mental depression are prone to sexual apathy, and these people are also prone to breast cancer.
