Post Date November, 16 2024
1. Sexual apathy can occur in men and women of all ages. Of course, there are fewer incidents of male frigidity than women. Previous data survey reports showed that among couples who receive excellent cultural education and physical and mental health, 16% of men have this problem, with a female share reaching 35%. However, due to the fact that the current stage of fruit stones only presents this problem, the main manifestations of women (except for abnormal male patients) are explained in detail in this article.
2. Patients with sexual cold talk are not without function.
Patients with frigidity are not only unhappy in their marital life, but also indifferent to it and have no sexual desire regulations for a long time. In other words, sexual activity lacks subjective desire and interest, including Libido, sexual dream and sexual masturbation, and even dislikes all intimate relationships.
For the third point mentioned above, it can be extended, as many shell enthusiasts who have doubts encounter this actual situation. Is there a reflection of watching TV dramas in such reading, without any emotional setbacks or unparalleled sexual tendencies, but without feeling the touch of a kiss? This is not a sexual cold chat, just a lack of sexy charm, also known as not being infected.
Lack of sexy charm is one of the common Erectile dysfunction of women, which is a physiological or psychological obstacle. For example, there is no immediate physiological relationship between a woman's appearance, aura, sexy charm (full face Melasma, sagging chest, etc.
Sexy charm is not enough to cure.
In addition, the lack of sexy charm, including the treatment of future sexual frigidity conversations, is important for the other party's infectivity. It is best to go to a psychological expert for sexual counseling with your partner. If men master professional knowledge in these areas and treat women themselves, their illness will not be cured.
Secondly, it is important to clarify the cause and Symptomatic treatment!
There are many complex reasons for frigidity, and the article emphasizes the following three points:
1、 The couple's life is not harmonious.
Some women have sexual apathy in conversations, which is mainly due to men. They lack professional knowledge in sex, and their posture is painful during marital life. When treating female frigidity, men should be gentle and friendly. In addition, there are also different couples who do not know the time when men and women climax. They are not fully prepared to flirt before sexual life. Before women have no sexual pleasure, men ejaculate high. Women have no sexual needs for a long time. They are not interested in the couple's life, indifferent, and feel pressure. Of course, if men are suspected of symptoms such as erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculation, they must also be diagnosed at a reputable hospital as soon as possible.
2、 Spiritual essence element.
On the other hand, some women are harmed by old ideas, long-term oppression, lack of proper understanding of sexual needs, or mistakenly believe that marital life is their dedication to their husband, or view marital life as unclean personal behavior, or that women should not be interested in marital life and should not be proactive
On the other hand, some patients with frigidity are not in harmony with their immediate family members, or their mood does not release pressure, and their married life is like the spiritual essence is damaged, which inhibits the excitement of the desire nerve center of the Cerebral cortex.
The treatment of this situation must be friendly to each other and strengthen communication. When necessary, men must wait for women to receive psychological guidance, marriage guidance, and even specific guidance from laws and regulations, to assist women in successfully changing their passive negative attitudes.
3、 Disease factors.
Physical weakness, overwork, changes in the effects of chronic diseases and endocrine disorders, and decreased libido.
In addition, cirrhosis, ascites, and ascites
With regard to the sexual coldness caused by diseases, the first thing to do is to treat the original disease (sexual coldness caused by diseases such as hypoplasia, pituitary degeneration, and Thyroxine reduction). Only by curing the original disease can we improve the disease from the source.
Attention: When taking too many blood pressure lowering drugs, sleeping sedatives, or traditional Chinese medicine cold drugs, sexual desire decreases and can be repaired after discontinuation. Do not talk coldly.
Very serious, the cold talk caused by contraceptive pills requires stopping the medication for several months before using other medications or using other contraceptive methods. Women who use sexual interruption contraception are prone to primary apathy due to sudden interruption of all normal sexual activity. Adopting more reliable and non-invasive contraceptive measures can usually eliminate concerns about sexual apathy.
In addition to the three important reasons mentioned above, sexual cold talk often occurs during pregnancy, lactation, after ligation surgery, hysterectomy, and female menopause. Another reason for sexual cold talk is a history of early sexual trauma, excessive nerve strips, clean habits, infertility, gynecological damage (perineal resection or perineal repair surgery), and some medical history of the reproductive system that cannot find all non-specific causes.
Ultimately, the self recognition of frigidity.
It is normal to often hear that the frequency of marital life and sexual desire is normal, or that people who are several times lower than marital life and sexual desire are called frigid conversations. Even at my age, it is normal to have a couple's life several times a month. In fact, due to the changes in modern daily life, we are not only concerned about the quality of married life, but also about the frequency of married life. But in reality, there is no correct data on the frequency of sexual activity.
What to do with sexual apathy? It is also a common situation that sexual desire is sluggish, which is related to factors such as work pressure and male hormones. It is also common to lose enthusiasm in long-term marriage relationships, not to mention that there are significant differences in sexual desire between people, and some people want to have it every day. Therefore, there is no unified standard for sexual desire, and sexual apathy does not mean that there is a problem with the human body.
If you suddenly feel that your recent sexual desire has decreased, or that a lack of sexual desire can cause harm to daily life and marital relationships, as well as work pressure, if you are uneasy, you must talk about the reasons behind sex.
1. Physiological reasons
There are many physiological reasons, and a very simple case is the pain caused by gynecological diseases during sexual activity. If the pain often occurs during sexual activity, it will naturally create a psychological state of resistance to sexual activity, and girls will think of sexual activity and pain
2. Psychological reasons
Don't think that low libido is just a physiological factor. Psychological disorders are actually very important for the harm of libido, including factors such as guilt, social development, work pressure, and low self-esteem. The popular awareness that good women should not have sexual desire deeply harms many young women. Even if they feel their sexual desire, it can be linked to a psychological state of guilt and shame, suppressing sexual desire.
During the epidemic of pneumonia, if you have a sexual desire, you can try a scientific diet, maintain fitness and exercise, and get up and go to bed early is beneficial for intimacy. Reduce stress, do not put pressure on yourself to fall in love with the human body again: whether you are single or have a goal, you should learn to love the human body and spend more time socializing with it
Looking for passion again: If you are in a long-term stable marriage relationship and feel like there is no passion between you two, you can try a different kind of family relationship than usual. For example, unifying legs, role-playing games, SM, etc., creating imagination and finding passion is not so difficult.
Male frigidity may have the following levels:
Maiyi, reproductive organ disease, decreased androgen metabolism, decreased libido.
2、 Neurological and psychiatric disorders: Sexual desire is manipulated by the central nervous system, and the central nervous system becomes diseased, leading to a loss of interest in marital life.
3、 Central nervous system disease: various growth hormones metabolized by the central nervous system can adjust human sexual function, and estrogen metabolism is less after the onset of the central nervous system.
Liver and gallbladder diseases: The liver participates in the metabolism of human hormones. When the liver function is abnormal, the male body estrogen increases, the male hormone decreases relatively, and even young people become Masculinization.
Excessive alcohol and smoke: Tobacco tar and ethanol can inhibit changes in male hormones. Blocking the channels of gratitude in the nervous system during marital life and reducing male function.
Human overwork: The human body is overworked, and in order to maintain the optimal makeup state of the human body, the brain must focus on resting the body and reduce sexual demand.
