We grow old too fast, but wisdom comes too late.
Save money and enjoy it after retirement. As a result, after retirement, I could not go anywhere because of my age, poor health and inconvenient movement. The money is saved for retirement. As a result, the children grow up, want to study abroad, start a business, spend money to marry a wife, and their pension will be taken away.
When you have enough ability to treat yourself well, do it immediately. The elderly sometimes can't do what the middle-aged or the young can do. Age and health are a big factor. When a child is young, he should tell him that if he raises you to high school, he should be self-reliant after college, study abroad, start a business and marry a wife. He should think of ways to save more money and not live for the child. We all grow old too fast, but we are too smart too late. A friend lost his wife last year. This sudden accident is really unacceptable, but death always happens. The friend said that his wife wanted him to send flowers to her most, but he thought it was too wasteful and always said to wait until the next time to buy them. The result was to decorate her funeral hall with flowers after her death. Isn't that stupid?
Wait until... wait until... It seems that all our lives are waiting.
"When I graduate from college, how will I..." we said to ourselves.
"Wait until I buy a house!"
"After my youngest child gets married!"
"After I negotiate this business!"
"When I die!"
Everyone is willing to sacrifice the present for the unknown waiting; Sacrifice the hard money of this life and this life to buy the comfort of future generations.
In Taiwan, as long as you walk on the road with mountains, you can see "farmhouses" changing into "refined houses" and "hillsides" changing into "spiritual towers" everywhere. It is just to wait until you die, to provide a guarantee and not to suffer again. Many people believe that they must wait until a certain time or after something is completed before taking action. I will start exercising tomorrow; I will treat him better tomorrow; Next week we will find time to go out for a walk; After retirement, we should enjoy ourselves.
However, life is always changing, the environment is always unpredictable, and in real life, all kinds of emergencies are always emerging. So, how do we face life? We don't need to wait for life to be perfect, and we don't need to wait for everything to be stable. What we want to do, we can start now.
A person can never predict the future, so don't delay the life you want to live, and don't be stingy in expressing your heart, because life is only in a moment.
Remember, don't let yourself leave "too late" spare hate. The dead cannot be traced, and the coming is still uncertain. The most precious "present" that needs to be grasped in real time is often lost in a twinkling of an eye between the two.
Life is short and erratic. There is a little poem written as follows: high sky and place, leisurely life path; Where to go, it will soon be dusk. It is Tao that has exhausted the fear that life is like a dream and will die in a twinkling of an eye.
Many things have become old before you know how to cherish them; There are many people who have become old before you put your heart into it.
Regretful things happen again and again, but it is useless to regret "knowing how" later. "That time" has passed, and the person you miss has left you.
A Swedish proverb says, "We grow old too fast, but we are too late to be smart." Whether you realize it or not, life is always moving forward.
Life does not sell round-trip tickets, and what you lose will never get. We hope to "wait until the convenient time to enjoy", and we don't know how many possible happiness we have lost!
Don't wait for the day when you "can relax" or "the trouble is over". Most of the good things in life are fleeting. Enjoy them, taste them, treat everyone around you kindly, and don't waste time waiting for the "perfect ending" of all problems.
To find the lost life, death may be free, but it has to pay the price of life.
Grasp the moment and don't wait!