Post Date December, 02 2023
Recently, I saw an interesting saying on the internet, called "the marriage equation".
According to reports, this equation was written by famous British mathematicians, who believe that the ideal age for men and women to marry should be 32 and 27 years old. If men and women of the right age do not discuss marriage, the chances of finding an ideal partner in the future will become smaller and smaller.
They say the theoretical basis for the "marriage equation" is that men psychologically have a "due date" for finding a partner. For example, between the ages of 16 and 60, he may date at least one woman and decide whether to marry or break up in order to find a better partner, but he certainly risks not finding a better candidate.
Assuming that y is the age at which you start searching for a partner, and x is the age at which you want to stop searching for a partner, then fitting the age into the equation will yield the "marriageable" age m. The formula is as follows: m=y+1/2. seven hundred and eighteen × (x-y), where m=marriageable age, y=age at which to start searching for an object, and x=age at which to stop searching for an object. For example, if you start looking for someone at the age of 18 and want to stop looking for someone at the age of 40, your marriageable age will be 26. According to the marriage equation, m is the age at which men and women should switch from the "search" mode to the "implement" mode.
Leaving aside the scientific and accurate nature of this theory for the time being, I think it is appropriate to lock the optimal age for marriage at around 32 for men and 27 for women. From a man's perspective, in their early 30s, they are not so reckless and impulsive, but they also have youthful vitality. More importantly, most men at this age understand what kind of life and love they want, "We will no longer easily make the low-level mistake of judging people by their appearance, and we will know how to care for women. Moreover, men who are still young have a certain career foundation, which has enabled them to have a more solid material foundation for taking care of women and their families, rather than castles in the air. Isn't this the best of both worlds?"?
From the perspective of women, women around the age of 27 have basically abandoned their original lofty ideals and capricious petulance, and have been able to lead down-to-earth lives. They are also more considerate and gentle. In this sense, their attitudes towards marriage and men can be described as having both romantic aspirations and a lack of intelligent rationality, which means that they both know how to enjoy the sweetness of love, And be able to assume the responsibilities of a wife as soon as possible after marriage. With men's mature charm and women's intellectual gentleness, the combination of men in their early 30s and women a few years younger can be considered perfect.
I remember an old saying: "A man should marry, a woman should marry.". "Big" may be understood in this way, which is slightly older than being young, but not so young anymore. In a sense, it seems to fit the meaning of the marriage equation.
Of course, marital relationships can be said to be the most complex thing in the world, and things like marriage equations can only be used as a reference. It may be naive to rely on these to achieve happiness, but such formulas can give us some enlightenment in some aspects, allowing us to walk more steadily and better on the path of pursuing a happy marriage.
