Regarding the issue of retrieving your ex girlfriend, I believe most people know that women are impulsive when making any decisions. As a man, if you want to retrieve your ex girlfriend at this time, you should be quite rational, not as impulsive as women, and maintain a calm mind.
There are many reasons why girls break up with you. Some people say that no matter what the reason for breaking up, it's all the boys' fault. This sentence is a bit extreme. There is no denying that this sentence is not unreasonable. When your girlfriend and you break up, it is necessary to calm down and think about your own problems, instead of attributing all the reasons for breaking up to the woman. Even if the woman really did something wrong, if you love her, shouldn't you tolerate her? Since you love her, you need to be able to accept her good and her bad aspects. If you can't tolerate some of the other person's things, there is no need to redeem them. Of course, if the other person's personality and you are very incompatible, there is no need to redeem such a situation. Even if it can be redeemed for a while, it will not last long.
"After a recent breakup, don't go to her for a while. She may want to think about it for herself, or she may feel a bit ostracized when facing you every day. She can also think about some things when she is alone.". If you keep pestering her, you may become even more bored with you, and both parties will live separately for a period of time. After all the anger has subsided, you may think of your kindness and come back to you on your own. "At all times, we should not be blind or impulsive. Maintaining a rational attitude is the best way to recover from a breakup, and then we need to find the crux of our emotions before applying the right medicine to the situation.".
After calming down for a while, try sending a message to greet her and see how she reacts. If you ignore you, stick to it for a while. Girls are always so embarrassed that it's impossible to come back to you immediately. Try to express that you know where you have made a mistake and how you will change your language to melt each other in the future. I believe that a kind woman will also give you a chance, Find back your original days. There is also a possibility that the other person really has a stone heart and doesn't want to come back to you anymore. They are tired of being with you. You need to figure out the other person's thoughts, whether they are vowing not to be with you anymore or just playing around. Playing around can be redeemed after a period of persistence, but if they want to be separated from you with a stone heart, it's still advisable to give up, even if you love her very much, Let her go free too, which will be better for both of you in the future.
In short, on the issue of retrieving an ex girlfriend, it is important to first maintain calm and not always disturb the other party after breaking up. After a period of calm, I believe both parties know whether to continue together or not. Boys need to learn a rational mindset to increase the probability of retrieving their ex girlfriend. If they blindly attempt to retrieve their ex girlfriend, they will only self-defeat.