Sexual Health
Understanding the difference between pleasure and orgasm is effective in improving the quality of activities
Sexual activity is an important component of human reproduction. Some tips have a multiplier effect on improving the quality of activities
Understand the difference between pleasure and orgasm.
What is the difference between orgasm and pleasure in sexual life? Some people say I feel very comfortable. Isn't this an orgasm?
What is an orgasm during sexual intercourse? It's meaningless to have sex without making us feel the best.
Pretending orgasm is very common.
Many people choose to disguise their orgasm because they are worried about not reaching it and are disappointed with their partner. According to a survey, women under the age of 30 use this method the most commonly. They often lack sexual experience, but have self-esteem and beauty.
I feel very charming. They do this to please their partners. Especially when they have sex for the first time, in order to avoid making the other person feel low-key, their expressions should not be quiet.
Secondly, sometimes women are unwilling to have sex and should deal with their husband's passion as soon as possible. In the past, their imitation of actively contracting the muscles of the pubococcygeal bone was the best part. This way, men can reach orgasm.
Other women want to see men excited by collaboration. From this perspective, pretending to climax can also allow women to enjoy sexual pleasure.
It is worth mentioning that it is also common for men to fake orgasms. A recent survey by British female health experts shows that nearly 15% of men aged 18 and 65 occasionally fake orgasms for similar reasons as women. Sometimes they may be unable to ejaculate due to physical fatigue and other reasons.
How to make women's most excited sexual skills.
Five movements won the climax.
Actively contract the muscles around the vagina (also known as PC muscles). This helps to direct blood flow towards the genitalia and achieve sexual arousal. These muscles are also designed to help stimulate orgasm, and it is best to control some muscles to contract computer muscles.
Stimulate point g. Based on clinical experience, the penis and G-spot cannot be ignored. If a woman does not have a G-spot to awaken her clitoris, it becomes even more sensitive.
Get rid of the troubles of work and family work. Tension has a negative impact on sexual response. Listen to music, take a shower, light lavender, and do something relaxing. When relaxing, it helps to reach orgasm.
Enthusiastic fantasies. Take some time to fantasize about sex. The opposite sex you like can be considered as your own physical and emotional excitement.
Most men and women mistakenly believe that formal orgasm can only be achieved through the vagina, while penile stimulation such as hands and mouth is unacceptable. They believe that orgasm is disgusting and abnormal. But in fact, penis stimulation is the climax of two people.
After a little, the more blood vessels, the stronger the sexual stimulation. The skin on the surface of the human body does not feel the second layer of skin. For most people, the genitals, earlobes, lips, breasts, buttocks, and thighs are the most obvious sexy areas. But many people's sexy areas include the neck, but many people's sexy areas include the neck, palms, soles of feet, and abdomen.
The order of contact plays an important role in sexual aspects. Generally speaking, we should gradually change from the least sensitive part to the most sensitive part. From the beginning, touching the most sensitive parts will only be the opposite.
Men and women like to touch in different ways. Women seem to be more sensitive to touch. Usually they like to gently touch and gradually increase their strength. Many people touch their spouse in their favorite way, but it may not necessarily be what they like. You should first identify the other party's true needs before achieving good results.
The sexual excitement of wives and husbands requires visual excitement. This explains why men like to turn on the lights when having sex, while women like to have sex when there is no light.
But women can also experience sexual excitement due to visual stimulation. Handsome men bring the same visual pleasure to men as beautiful women. But in practice, they don't talk about it.
Although visual stimulation is so important in terms of sexuality, many people still mistakenly avoid using their eyes. They are worried that their health may not be satisfactory. Women may be concerned about breasts being too small and thighs being too thick, while men may be concerned about penises being too small and too strong. We lack self-awareness so strongly that it is difficult to believe that others will feel excited about us.
Everyone has a bacterial odor that forms from the surface of their skin. It is different from fingerprints. We believe that some people are very attractive to themselves, which is largely related to their taste. 71% of men and women are considered important. About one-third of women believe that strong men are more sexy than thin men. More than half of people believe that musk is the sexiest. About a quarter of people like spicy body flavors.
Women's sense of smell seems to be more sensitive than men's. They can smell slight sweat three feet away. Their sense of smell is particularly sensitive during ovulation.
Musk is produced in shady and liquid glands in the human body. Aromatic compound hormones play an important role in the animal world.
Attracting male animals to pursue prolific female animals. But the situation for humans is different. Smelling the scent of your spouse's body is usually not enough to make you feel good. However, the body fragrance of a spouse should not be underestimated in terms of sexuality. Modern people enjoy cleanliness.
Always clean the entire body without the smell of natural gas. Of course, the bad smell is very annoying. So, the best way is to keep the body clean and fragrant.
Our taste buds are approximately 10000 distributed in different parts of the tongue based on sensory function: sweet taste buds at the tip of the tongue, sour taste buds at the tip of the tongue, and bitter taste buds at the back of the tongue. Only the salty taste can feel all parts of the tongue. This is a good thing because the human body is very clean and a bit salty.
The interests of men and women seem to be a bit different. Men prefer salty women over sweet ones. However, in terms of sex, the most important thing is to get rid of unpleasant odors. Most of us like to have sexual intercourse with our spouses after they take a shower. Movies and advertisements often promote sweat as a sexy medium, but in reality, very few people kiss their spouses and engage in sexual intercourse after playing tennis.
The following six points are also very intense.
Relax the body.
Relax the leg and buttocks muscles. Ejaculation is controlled by PC muscles, and the buttocks and thighs muscles are tense. Some people believe that muscle tension increases pleasure, but it also accelerates orgasm. So, relaxing these muscles can help delay orgasm.
Pay attention to posture.
In terms of sex, if you and your partner use female orgasm, it is easier to control. When a man is in the highest position, due to the pressure of his entire weight on the penis, his body continues to move up and down, causing muscle tension, although it can also bring pleasure. But controlling orgasm is not easy.
Use throat breathing method.
Men can prolong their sexual life by adjusting their breathing, such as throat breathing. This is the method of breathing in yoga. It's a bit like breathing through the nose, but slower and calmer. The method is to relax the body and put your thoughts on your nose.
Slowly adjust your breathing to make it calm and rhythmic. After a while, put your thoughts on your throat and gently contract the muscles of your throat, like a baby sleeping gently. The entire breathing process should be slow and long.
It is said that this technology is a male patent. It can be used when the penis is erect enough to reach a damp vagina. Through it, men can not only freely control their breathing, but also control themselves before ejaculation.
High tide.
There is no need to break the sexual mindset. More worrisome is that orgasm is more likely to accelerate. So you can try ending sex without ejaculating. After a few attempts, it can be easier to distinguish between sexual and orgasm to control it.
Empty urine.
Go to the restroom to control orgasm before having sex. Because the bladder is close to the ejaculatory prostate, it is difficult to control ejaculation if the bladder is filled with urine.
Build confidence.
Many factors that affect ejaculation should not be labeled as premature ejaculation, as it comes too early once or twice. The more worried you are, the more likely you are to lose control sexually. Even if you really notice that you have sexual dysfunction, communicate with your partners in a timely manner and find treatment methods.
Men and women are not exactly the same in terms of sex. It has been proven that just paying attention can make sexual relationships more harmonious.