Post Date December, 02 2023
Although there are a lot of extramarital affairs in today's society, and the harm to the family and the victims is self-evident, many people have great doubts about this. Why does the phenomenon of extramarital affairs occur in the family that is clearly very loving? Let's answer this question one by one.
Mystery 1: In modern society, there are obviously many extramarital affairs
The answer: According to the survey from the United States, only 15% to 20% of the total number of families are involved in affairs. Obviously, the phenomenon of extramarital affairs is not as serious as expected. People who hold this view (mostly men) just want to justify their behavior. Women will also be the victims of this view. They will blindly believe that men have the habit of flirting and become suspicious, and take excessive precautions against their husbands, thus undermining mutual trust. And trust is the cornerstone of a happy marriage.
It is undeniable that people's psychology of wanting to have an affair is indeed very common. Even some very traditional men and women sometimes have to compete with some kind of temptation. But the act of cheating is completely avoidable. The key is self-control. It is necessary to refrain from continuing to interact with a possible third party, and at the same time try to improve the intimate relationship with your spouse.
Mystery 2: If you suspect your spouse has an affair, you'd better not say it
The answer: This kind of practice in the heart will not bring good results. In fact, if one partner has an affair, the other partner will soon feel it, and any trace of one partner will cause anxiety in the other's spirit.
Therefore, the party who may be deceived should confess his doubts, but not to question, blame, and investigate, but to speak calmly. For example, you can talk about your dreams and let the other party know your worries. Of course, there may not be such a thing, but this frank communication will reveal some other problems. For example, her husband was upset and lost his "sex" interest recently. It turned out that he was in trouble at work. In modern society, the pressure of life is borne by both husband and wife, which has greater significance.
Even if your doubts are confirmed, it is valuable to speak frankly. Because things are clearly on the table, you are no longer in the dark and can make adjustments in the face of reality. You should know that whether a wife or a husband, the worst thing is to know that the other party has an affair without saying anything, and let it go, which will lead to the deformity and deterioration of the marriage relationship.
Riddle 3: If your spouse has an affair, it may be rooted in you
The answer: There are not a few people who believe this and feel sorry for themselves, especially the wives. And unfaithful spouses will also shirk their responsibilities, seek excuses and often exaggerate. However, it is obviously illogical for one party to take the responsibility of the other party. In any case, when your spouse has an affair, it can only prove that he or she is willing to do so. It is only to make the adulterer feel more at ease by blaming you.
The above are a few things that many people will question about the issue of extramarital affairs. From the above introduction, we can see that extramarital affairs are not groundless, because now the lights are full of light and the lights are green. If you do not grasp your principles, you will easily lose yourself, and of course, you are also suspected of falling into such a deformed sexual relationship.
