Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband, Ahsin (alias), is tall and handsome, gentle and considerate to me, and he is eloquent, so it is normal for me to give up on him. However, the philanderer did not take my infatuation seriously. All day long, attract bees and butterflies to please some women and never do serious things. So everything in the family was left to me, and the only thing he did was to pick up girls. After five years of marriage, I finally found that his only specialty was around women. That was how I was cheated by him.
From the third year after marriage, my husband has gradually become selfish and the scandal with his lover has been exposed again and again. Even I feel tired for him, but he is still happy. For the sake of children, I have forgiven him every time, but he is not in the least displeased. He was caught fooling around with other women eight times in our house alone in a year. That kind of scene still makes me feel ugly.
We had no choice but to live apart. Because he was restless, I didn't dare to let the child live with him. He begged me not to tell his family the truth. I also don't want to tell my family, because my parents were strongly opposed to my marriage at the beginning, and I chose to go my own way. Now I think, I should swallow the bitter fruit myself.
After separation, not only did my husband not come to see the children, but he even began to delay paying the living expenses agreed upon during separation, which made me completely cold. The more so, the more I kept urging. Every time he said that he had no money. Later, I learned that his money was spent on women, and he still owed a lot of money to many people. Knowing this news, my lungs are going to explode.
After thinking about it, I made up my mind to have a good talk with Ashin, but when I returned to the once familiar home, the scene before me made my scalp tingle: I saw two women sitting on the ground with their hair down, fighting desperately, and their clothes were torn to pieces. They cursed each other "bitch, smelly little girl". They were surprised to see me, But Wang Ahsin, a cheap man, sat beside him like a gangster and watched his two lovers fight. His intoxicated look was like watching a movie.
Seeing this scene, I was not interested in saying another word to Wang Axin. I immediately took him to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedure. When I took the divorce certificate in my hand, I cried excitedly and broke up with the man who made me cold. It was a wise thing in itself, but it was a pity that these years together had delayed my youth. My tears, probably because of this. Without love and responsibility, breaking up is the happiest thing!
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
