Post Date December, 02 2023
We often see in American movies that some people kiss each other goodbye and say "ILOVEYOU" before going to work. This is the unique marital etiquette in the United States, which will also be understood and accepted by many Chinese people, and even some people will be happy with it.
However, sometimes, when we imitate others too much, things will not be as effective as we expected, and sometimes they will make things worse.
Lu Tao, He Qi's husband, is such a person who likes to imitate American love behavior. When she first fell in love, He Qi didn't feel how wrong the gentle words of her boyfriend were. But when the two married, with the days becoming increasingly dull, He Qi gradually felt that it was unnecessary for her husband to say "I love you!" and "I like you" all the time. He Qi thinks her husband is very annoying. She doesn't want to hear his sweet words any more. What she wants to hear is that he talks to himself about his own inner world, rather than these words repeated verbally. Not only that, from meeting to sleeping every day, his husband still talks the most about love words. Even during the time when the TV series is interrupted by advertisements, Lu Tao can say "I love you" in different ways.
Finally, one day, after she went downstairs to buy vegetables and heard her husband's words "I love you", He Qi broke out with her dissatisfaction for a long time. She said that she was tired of her husband's endless love words. She hoped that her husband would accumulate these words in his heart and not let the original sacred love words fall in value.
When the husband heard his wife's grievance, he was surprised. He stood there awkwardly, looking surprised and wondering what to do
Too many sweet words will annoy another partner
In real life, some people who like to talk about love always think that there can be no lack of sweet words in love. Only by expressing love all the time can the other party know their love for the other party.
However, not everyone likes such frequent expressions. They may feel happy and sweet when they hear them at the beginning of their love. But once the time gets longer, many couples will no longer need these love words from time to time. Occasionally speaking these words will play an unexpected positive role. However, frequent expressions of love words from time to time will inevitably make people feel repulsive. In this way, not only do they not get the desired results, On the contrary, it has brought negative effects on the feelings between husband and wife.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
