Post Date December, 03 2023
In marital life, it is inevitable for couples to argue over trivial matters, and sometimes when women are angry and men coax them, it's better; But if a man is angry, it may be difficult for women to calm him down. How should you deal with the stubborn temper when a man is angry? Below, the editor will help you with your suggestions.
Husband's Furious Performance 1: Using Cold Violence to Deal with You
After a quarrel, some men never say the first sentence. They are accustomed to retaliating against you in the form of a "cold faced killer". Therefore, if you also deal with them in this way, your marriage will be in jeopardy.
Response tip: Sign the 'Family Convention'
When you are living in harmony, you can negotiate and sign a "family agreement" with him, which means that each person takes turns doing it once, and the person who speaks up within 24 hours after the argument. And stick it in a prominent position in the family, so that when you really argue, you can remind the two of it and avoid your husband's cold and violent behavior.
Husband's Furious Performance 2: Resolutely Not Admitting Mistakes
Some men have a very stubborn temper, strong self-esteem, and good face. They always believe that their actions are right and their views are wrong. If you reason with them, they will definitely not accept your approach. At this moment, he may make you helpless.
Response tip: Give him a "sweet date" to eat first
Faced with such a husband, first of all, you need to give him a sweet date to eat. Men praise him loudly, such as saying, "Your idea is very right, I also agree, but..." Invisibly, and then run your thoughts through his mind to help him correct it.
Husband's Angry Behavior Three: Being Like a Child and Being Willful
This kind of husband has a bit of a childish temperament, willful and stubborn. If he finds that his opinions conflict with yours, he won't argue with you, just blindly doing his own things, as if he doesn't feel like you exist. In fact, this type of man who doesn't like arguing is even more terrifying than arguing.
Response tip: Understand his inner needs
At this point, you must understand his inner needs, no matter what he wants to do, you must learn to make decisions with him. For example, you can say 'let's go shopping together', 'go shopping together, buy household items together...'. When he says this, even if he doesn't want to, he will still agree to your request.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
