Post Date December, 03 2023
Although the emphasis is now on gender equality, and women hold up half the sky, many times, marriages where women are strong and men are weak often find it difficult to be happy, often ending in failure. Remind strong women that they need some skills to achieve marital happiness, and if they can achieve the following aspects, they will add points to a happy marriage.
1. Strong women outside, small women at home
Strong women are accustomed to competing with men outside, and when they are at home, it is inevitable to intentionally or unintentionally show their strength. In order to have a happy marriage, a strong woman must recognize her own role. No matter how strong she is outside, it's good to be strong, but don't bring strength from work to home. In family life, it's important to return to being a small woman. Being a strong woman is also tiring. Occasionally, being a small woman at home can be relaxing and relaxing. At home, it is necessary to show your gentle and considerate little woman's side, and spend more time managing "marriage".
Equality and Respect for Husbands
While women cry for equality and respect, don't forget that men also need respect. Equality and respect are absolutely paramount if marriage is to last. Even when arguing, don't forget to respect the word, and always take into account your husband's self-esteem. No matter how weak a man is, he is also a man and needs dignity. If you blurt out "I even bought the house, what did you pay for it?" during a fight, it would definitely damage the dignity of a man to the point of exhaustion. There is a saying that "a good wife is coaxed out (more considerate and caring), while a good husband is praised (trusted and supported).". Men particularly need to be respected and needed.
Affirm the husband's contribution to the family
There is a song that sings well. There are half of you and half of me on the military merit chapter. Even if the husband cooks and takes care of the children at home, his contribution to the family is also indispensable and must be recognized. Without the support of family members, the work may not be so smoothly completed, as it solves the worries behind us. Therefore, be grateful, request, and negotiate with your partner; Less criticism, complaints, orders, and arrangements. Moreover, it is a great sacrifice for a man to be a family cook for women and children. Women need more respect and understanding.
4. Discover the strengths of your husband
Everyone has their own advantages, and even if a man is not as successful as a woman in terms of economy and career, there must be some shining points in him. Don't compare your husband to others, don't be too greedy. Men will feel disrespected and mistrusted in the family, and their sense of frustration will increase. In the long run, marriage will be over.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
