Couple sex is quite satisfying for everyone, so how can we live a good life together? Now let's introduce how to live a good married life.
Sexual activity before childbirth:
The sexual desire of men and women is not just for intercourse, but should gradually make sexual life more harmonious, poetic, and romantic. During this period, oral contraceptives or condoms can be used to avoid pregnancy.
If the woman has strong sexual desire and the man has functional problems such as premature ejaculation, the Woman on top sexual position can be used or a new condom with the effect of increasing feelings can be used, which not only has contraceptive effect, but also prolongs time and enhances pleasure.
Sexual activity after childbirth: Sexual desire and behavior are natural instincts of humans, and abstinence is impossible for married couples. Therefore, couples should be more considerate and caring for each other after giving birth to children. During the postpartum period when sexual intercourse is not suitable, other sexual methods should be used to fill the thirst for sex, such as telling love stories, hugging and kissing when the baby falls asleep, and the wife can give more caregiving to the husband.
Furthermore, during childbirth, women may experience tearing of the vagina and perineum. Although sutures have been made, it still takes some time to heal. Having a child is a challenge for women, and husbands should be considerate and comforting.
Even if there is no tear on the perineum, childbirth can cause the vaginal mucosa to stretch. During this period of sexual activity, men may feel that the vagina is looser and less elastic than before. If the husband says some derogatory words after sexual intercourse, it can deeply hurt the wife's emotions. Sexual activity is both a physiological necessity and an instinctive desire, serving as a link between husband and wife's emotions.
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Therefore, the satisfaction of sexual desire should be a common physiological and psychological connection between both parties, and should not be the obligation of one party to the other and the simple discharge and satisfaction of desires. If the wife feels unwell or forcibly makes love against her will, it will inevitably cause resentment and disgust from the other party, affecting the relationship between the couple.
So, how to handle the sexual life after childbirth is very important for the happiness and harmony of the family. Overall, the sexual desire of a wife who nurtures and takes care of her children after childbirth is not as good as before. The husband needs to be more understanding and tolerant. After a period of time, when the child grows older, her sexual desire will naturally recover.