Post Date November, 16 2024
American psychologists and clinical physicians have found in years of follow-up surveys that happy couples have some "common habits" that they instinctively adhere to in their daily lives.
It may not seem counterintuitive to have to tell the truth every time, but maintaining "100% transparency" with a partner is not a good thing.
When discussing some tricky and sensitive topics, such as how the families of both parties are, it is best to "keep your mouth shut" and not pour out your joys, sorrows, and joys to the other party, as "reserved words" can truly enhance the relationship.
There is no winner in a couple's argument because there are fundamental differences in their personalities and lifestyles, and neither party can try to change the other party's "bad temper". The idea that every argument has a winner and an apology is unacceptable. We should try our best to come up with remedial measures instead of getting stuck in endless arguments.
Spending time together several times a month is a common activity in daily life. Whether it's shopping or cooking together, it's a great way for a happy couple to spend time together. And such activities should not be too frequent, just a few times a month is enough.
Petting and other small actions are more important than sex, according to psychologist Lewis Terman from Stanford University. Couples who have "sexual pleasure" do not have regular sex, but often maintain physical contact. Small actions such as patting the shoulders and touching the face can promote the relationship between couples more than sexual activity.
After reviewing the good times, psychologists from Exeter University interviewed 200 couples who were close to each other, and found that they had one thing in common: even if they quarreled with each other, they would still look at the problem with a "historical perspective", and review every bit of each other's previous love for themselves. They believe that arguing is an inevitable thing in marriage, so they won't be so "engaged" in every detail.
