In real life, not all marriages portrayed by people are as boring and unsuccessful as Mr. Shen Congwen's definition of 'tomb'. In fact, the true definition of marriage is that there is no definition. Everyone's marriage is different, and the key lies in personal management.
If you, a married woman, are smart and hope that marriage can always bring you surprises and happiness, please do not do these three things. Although things are small, they have a huge impact.
Shopping frenzy
If you are planning to accept a natural shopaholic as your wife, you must have a strong financial foundation behind you, otherwise your marriage will be quite difficult The Way to Serve a Good Wife - Five Don'ts
In summary, this type of girl is not naturally frugal, and you should not try to make her understand your hard work. She can love you very much, she can do this and that for you, but there is only one thing that you cannot interfere with her shopping desire, and she also does not allow you to do so. Once you reach her bottom line, the consequences will inevitably be a war.
Compare
A woman who often likes to make comparisons may have a good intention in doing so. She hopes you can work harder at work, which is also out of consideration for family.
But many times, the comparison of girls can make you feel dissatisfied, which is the root cause of destroying marriage. Imagine your daughter encouraging you in this way every day in your ear, what would you think? Don't you think it's crooked?
Sigh and sigh
Women who become housewives after marriage often do not understand the hardships of men. This type of girl will constantly lament around you, with some elements of complaint. As for the content, it is nothing more than idle and boring topics, and sometimes she may even be found uncomfortable by you. To summarize with a netizen's sentence, "It's purely idle and idle, looking for trouble
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)