The so-called love affair indicates that love is achieved through words. If two people do not communicate or communicate at all together, this relationship naturally cannot be discussed. At the same time, men's self-esteem is particularly strong. In the movie "My Teenage Days", if a boy admires a girl, he may choose to take the initiative to attack or choose side defense. Although Xu Taiyu's appearance was full of rashness, his inner tenderness was like water. Beneath his cold exterior, he concealed a fiery heart, which was only released for his beloved female protagonist, Lin Chengxin. In the eyes of women, the truly worthy man to love is not a top-notch warm man who is devoted to the world, but a domineering CEO who only has a special liking for himself and a gentle and exclusive affection.
People in love always lose their opinions and discretion because they care too much about each other, and even speak recklessly. When Lin sincerely said to Xu Taiyu, "I will never talk to you again!" Xu Taiyu's heart had already collapsed. In fact, some of the so-called harsh words from women are just temporary arrogance, and men just listen to them. It's like when a woman says to a man, "You're so annoying!" In fact, it doesn't mean that the woman really thinks how annoying the man is. On the contrary, she thinks that the man is so bad that it's too late for love. So, men need to learn to understand what women say. Of course, women also need to pay attention to their speaking accuracy and style. The following three harsh words should not be spoken to men casually, as these three harsh words may completely damage a man's self-esteem.
1、 You are such a loser.
When a woman scolds a man as a coward, it indicates that the man has deeply broken the woman's heart. Not every relationship will have a beautiful memory, and there will inevitably be moments of tears in those past moments. What you need to do is to bravely love, pursue, and embrace the most beautiful rainbow. When the air is filled with the atmosphere of lovesickness and love, you can naturally truly embrace life and the beauty of life. The most beautiful time of love is when the person you love possesses your most genuine and beautiful energy. When love is full of the most exciting power, all stories will no longer be black and white. Men cannot tolerate women cursing themselves as cowards, which is equivalent to completely denying the value of men's existence.
2、 I was really blind when I first saw you.
If a woman says to a man, 'It was really blind to see you back then.' The psychological shadow area of a man is definitely not small. In fact, when a woman thinks that she is clumsy and loves the wrong person, it is not only a harm to the man's self-esteem, but also a negation of her own aesthetic values. For a woman, if you say that you were blind when you first fell in love with this man, then it indicates that your perspective on people has always been poor. In fact, emotional matters have no logic at all, and only follow the rules of the heart Play and gradually adapt and change. Blind people are everywhere in relationships, and sometimes love itself is just a blind cat hitting a dead mouse. Women should never put this sentence on their lips, as it is a huge blow and devastation to men's self-esteem.
3、 Why don't you die.
Sometimes, when a woman is extremely angry, she will blurt out and scold a man, "Why don't you die! Or: "Why don't you get away from me, how far away!" When a person's emotions reach a dead end, it is often the arrival of another spring of life. Any contradiction or problem in a relationship can be resolved through communication, and unsolvable problems can be resolved and relieved through peaceful breakups. Bitter words can only brew huge disasters. In emotions, the necessary reason is the last protective barrier that sustains the lasting development of a relationship. When emotions are swallowed up by anger, please maintain the necessary calmness and think twice before taking action.