In the process of dating, we are sure to encounter many, many problems. Many people have gradually become accustomed to each other and even changed a lot for each other. Finally, we can come together and form a happy family. In fact, there are many things we need to pay attention to when dating. Whether it's a man or a woman, we must not overdo the following three behaviors.
1. Men spend excessively frugally
It is a good thing for men not to spend money recklessly, but no matter what it is, there will always be a limit. Once the limit is exceeded, even good things can have a bad effect. "It's all about saving and saving. It's not enough. I also require my wife to be diligent and thrifty together, which is quite like Eugenie Grandet's stingy style.". As a result, the enjoyment that should be enjoyed in family life is basically canceled, and the most frightening thing is that the necessary expenses for life are also reduced. As a result, the wife cannot tolerate this kind of life and divorce, unless the man's wife sympathizes with the man and supports him.
2. Women are ambivalent
Some women are naturally affectionate seeds and like to attract bees and butterflies. This is something inherent in some women. Her biggest characteristic is not to give up any chance of falling in love. All men who pursue her seem to her to have special charm. Facing such a woman, you can only be prepared mentally. If she falls in love with you, it's easy to fall in love with others. With such a woman, men are physically and mentally more tired, wearing a green hat is a matter of time, and the breakdown of marriage is also a matter of time.
3. Women are excessively jealous
"Because women are delicate and sensitive to things in their bones, especially for men, it's not surprising that women are jealous, which is not a particularly serious disadvantage. It's just a matter of tolerance, being too sensitive, being too suspicious, guessing all day long, finding things out of nothing, or even making things out of nothing. It's all about asking for trouble.".
A very important expression of jealousy is excessive jealousy, ready to overturn the vinegar jar at any time. Men walking on the road should not look at both sides of their eyes, which is bound to cause a storm.
Conclusion: You know, every relationship is hard won, and we all need to treat each relationship sincerely. Don't let some small things ultimately lead to not being together, which will only make each other very sad. Therefore, the above three issues are something that many men and women need to pay attention to. In love, only by aligning ourselves with our mindset and some behaviors can we come together.