Post Date December, 02 2023
Some people say that marriage goes into the grave of love after two people get married. Although this remark killed many people a bit, it was not entirely unreasonable. However, there are many more couples whose feelings are growing with each passing day after marriage. They are happy and love each other. The flower of love is always in bloom. The reason lies in the consolidation and proper development of the relationship between husband and wife. Many couples have more and more feelings after marriage. They are happy and love each other. The flower of love is always in bloom. The reason lies in the consolidation and proper development of the relationship between husband and wife.
The golden rule of love between husband and wife
1. Always recall love:
Hot love is the precursor of marriage. It is really wonderful for men and women in hot love to be attached to each other for a moment. After marriage, often recalling the hot love scene before marriage can arouse the emotional resonance of the couple, and add romantic feelings in the memory, more yearning for the future, thus enhancing the relationship between the couple.
2. Arrange another "honeymoon":
The honeymoon at the time of marriage is the most emotional period for the couple. At that time, the two people put aside all the troubles and completely entered the world of love better than honey and enjoyed the "Garden of Eden". After marriage, if you can take advantage of holidays and arrange different "honeymoons" every year, such as traveling to a different place, recreating the small world of love between the two people, and revisiting the beautiful dreams of the past, you will be able to constantly raise the waves of love and make the relationship between husband and wife stronger and stronger.
3. Celebrate commemorative festivals:
Marriage anniversary, each other's birthday, love anniversary and so on are important dates in the history of love between husband and wife. At that time, take appropriate forms to commemorate, so that both parties feel that the other party has deep love for themselves, which plays a great role in consolidating the relationship between husband and wife.
4. Compensation for past debt:
Many couples fail to take the ideal form to report back and forth their love to each other when they get married due to limited conditions, such as failing to spend their honeymoon or buy a decent one for their lover? Gifts, etc. A few years later, when the conditions are met, remember to complete these unfinished matters in order to repay the debt owed in the past, which will make the other party feel that you are a very affectionate and affectionate person, and the love for you will be doubled. For example, many gay men buy gold jewelry for their lovers after marriage, and many couples who have passed the age of marriage will take wedding color photos.
5. Learn to please your lover:
Some men and women, when dating each other before marriage, always try to please each other, but after marriage, they no longer care about each other's feelings about themselves. This practice will hurt the feelings of the couple. Therefore, after marriage, female comrades should be as gentle and gentle as ever and care for their husbands; Male comrades, on the other hand, should carefully appreciate their wife's inner feelings. They should not only take care of her everywhere, but also learn some skills to please her, such as being a high ginseng for her to buy clothes, helping her to make beauty plans, and having a little humor from time to time.
6. Create some surprises:
Surprise the other party unexpectedly and often act as an emotional "stimulant". Meeting with relatives in the distance, buying something for each other that they really want to get, creating an activity for the couple that the other has not prepared but likes very much, and so on, can make unexpected surprises arise spontaneously, thus bursting out a strong emotional flower in the surprise and setting off a jubilant heat of love.
7. A little farewell:
"Farewell is better than marriage". After a period of quiet husband and wife life, consciously leave each other for a period of time, deliberately cultivate the yearning of both parties for their loved ones, and then get together happily. At this time, it can make the emotional heat of the couple's yearning interweave into a happy reunion carnival, and push the calm feelings of the couple to a new peak.
8. Focus on your image:
Some people, after marriage, are no longer fastidious about their clothes and looks, and are slovenly. Especially for gay men, the problem is more serious. In fact, no matter which side of the couple, they don't want each other to leave a bad image in the eyes of others. Therefore, paying attention to one's own image can not only please the other party, but also be the need to save face for the other party in public. Otherwise, it may affect the feelings of both parties.
Many couples, after having children, often use their emotions to their children, often ignoring the emotional needs of their loved ones, especially female comrades. This approach is biased. It is necessary to love your children, but this does not mean that you should give up your love for your lover. In that way, it will not only neglect the lover and affect the relationship between husband and wife, but also cast a shadow over the family.
9. Leave time for bath and love:
In the fast-paced competition of modern society, everyone's work is very busy. Many people are too busy with their official business to pay attention to their love life, so that the couple often cannot eat and sleep together, affecting the consolidation and development of their relationship. So no matter how busy your work is, you should also arrange it skillfully, squeeze out the time, and leave it for two people to live together and share the love.
10. Keep your sex life fresh:
Sex is an important way to connect couples' feelings, and a good sex life is a necessary guarantee to consolidate and develop their feelings. Many married couples have the same sex life, lack of innovation, and lead to emotional passivity. Therefore, it is necessary to create a new sexual life style. By changing the time, place and position of sexual life, both husband and wife can get fresh feelings from the forever fresh sexual life, and keep the emotional flower of husband and wife fresh forever.
11. Leave some privacy:
No matter how big a person is, he will also be jealous of his lover's gossip, and it is more difficult to tolerate knowing his lover's affairs, which leads to the family crisis. Therefore, it is not a good idea to "confess" the privacy in the past personal marriage history to the present lover. That will not only do nothing to improve the relationship, but will bring about avoidable emotional crisis. Therefore, leaving some personal privacy is a wise choice to consolidate and develop the relationship between husband and wife.
12. Be careful to make friends with the opposite sex:
It is normal for couples to have their own social activities after marriage. However, we should pay attention to making friends with the opposite sex carefully. We should keep a proper balance when communicating, so that the relationship between each other can only be controlled within the gay relationship. Friends of the opposite sex who obviously have a good feeling for themselves or even have no good intentions for themselves should take the initiative to alienate and deal with emotional disputes with reason. The best way is to participate in some social activities that are attended by yourself as little as possible. Even if you can't refuse, you should also ask to attend with your lover. Especially when there is a danger of "third party" getting involved, we should do this more to put an end to the thought of "non share". Support the cause of love Everyone has his own cause after taking up his job. So, whether the man or the woman, can't they just care about themselves? And ignore the cause of the other party, and cannot force the other party to sacrifice their beloved cause to obey themselves. That will only hurt each other's feelings. Both husband and wife have the right to pursue their own career and the responsibility to undertake family obligations. The right way to do this is to find ways to take on more family responsibilities and enthusiastically support your lover's career. If both sides can do this, they can resolve conflicts and enhance feelings.
13. Respect each other:
People are face-loving. Criticizing their lovers in front of others is the easiest way to hurt their self-esteem and affect their feelings. Therefore, we should learn to respect each other. When there are more people, we should flatter our lovers to win their hearts. Only when the husband and wife are together, you can put forward some suggestions to him (her) and even criticize him (her) severely, and the other party will feel the deep love reflected in your painstaking heart while accepting it happily, so as to repay you with double love.
After marriage, if you can't make a good balance of income and expenditure, there will be a financial crisis in the family, which will affect the relationship between husband and wife. In some families, money is in the charge of one party. If financial disclosure is not available, family conflicts will also arise when one party's economic requirements are not met. These are all worthy of vigilance. Therefore, husband and wife should jointly manage their money, adhere to the principle of keeping the family within their means, be diligent, thrifty and prudent. We should always keep some mobile funds in hand in case of any unexpected use. In this way, we can prevent financial crisis in the bud and avoid emotional crisis.
