These sexual knowledge are essential for the post-80s generation to understand the problems that married couples may face

Marriage is not the end of love, but the beginning of love and sex. At the beginning of a romantic relationship, both parties often do not directly discuss the issue of sex, but instead observe and evaluate it from the perspective of attracting the other party. Until each other feels the sexual attraction of the other and is satisfied with it, there will be further interaction between the two parties.

This process can of course be very short and fast, as young people often say - seeing the other person gives a feeling of "electric shock"; It can also be something else, for example, after experiencing a few months, feeling the other person's sexual attraction is usually tacit.

This also applies to the romantic process of married couples during their sexual life. By continuously discovering and appreciating each other's sexual attractiveness through learning, sexual communication and interaction between the two parties will become more in-depth, reaching a higher level that unmarried couples cannot achieve.

For married couples, "slow stewing" may be more important and effective. The sexual attraction of married people has not weakened, but has increased, because only married people can fully demonstrate and summarize sexual attraction through specific sexual actions, expressions, and language, including those that must be temporarily concealed before marriage.

For an unmarried relationship, the next step is for either party to first send a signal that they want to start direct sexual activity or attempt to lead the relationship and relationship in this direction. After receiving such signals from each other, they always need to evaluate and evaluate, and then give feedback on their own.

The same goes for married couples. If both parties believe that improving the quality of sexual life is only their responsibility, then no one will take action first. Some people are worried that their signals will be misunderstood by the other party or lose face due to the other party's failure to respond; Some people (the majority of wives) are accustomed to being passive and submissive, never thinking that they will also send signals. Some people, on the other hand, are unwilling to give in because they have had some minor disputes in other aspects and have brought this contradiction into their sexual life.

Therefore, on the one hand, both parties believe that the quality of sexual life needs to be improved, but on the other hand, no one is willing to step down first or knows how to do it. In fact, some people must temporarily let go. This not only does not make the person who made concessions regretful, but also proves that they are more open, cherish their marriage more, and love each other more than the other.

Many married couples feel that since they have done it many times, they will definitely not misunderstand my meaning. This is not the case. For example, many wives often exhibit various "discomfort" or "troubles" when they need to have sex but their husbands do not realize it, and many wives themselves do not understand why this is the case.

If the husband doesn't understand this and still only cares about his wife's physical health as usual, or if the underwear sent home has a thermal function, then the wife's trouble will be even greater. Similarly, some husbands sometimes also want to have sex, but are embarrassed to say it directly or don't know how to say it. So some people's inner oppression, the more suppressed it is, the more uncomfortable it becomes; Some people get angry with their wives and make things worse.

If a married couple experiences disharmony in their sexual life, one party may appear more troubled and distressed. For example, some husbands are overly concerned about frequent sexual activity and become very distressed once they are disharmonious, while wives do not take them seriously.