Post Date December, 02 2023
Being together with lovers is very sweet, but there can also be deceit between lovers. At the same time, there are always various conflicts and arguments between men and women in their relationship. In fact, this is a normal phenomenon, and sometimes various deceits may occur. So now let's take a look at the most common deceptions between lovers. I wonder if you have done the same in life?
If you are sincere to me, I can do anything for you
This statement implies several meanings from the lover's mouth: firstly, you are not sincere enough towards me, and I am not satisfied with what you have given. Secondly, your request for my emotions is unreasonable because you are not sincere. Thirdly, the premise for me to give is that you must truly give. I was deeply moved when I heard it, and finally realized that this sentence is both progressive and regressive. I demand that you give more, and then at critical moments, I use this to deceive you: because you don't have full sincerity, then don't blame me for retreating. The ambiguity and confusion of the lover when saying this sentence, in stark contrast to the cold ending, can make people feel that extramarital affairs are like sharp swords that hurt others.
Between lovers, it's important to talk about emotions, money doesn't count as much
Since it's called a lover and not a "mistress" or "mistress" who has been taken care of, of course, we only talk about emotional issues. Wrong, drawing inferences from one example, your lover is talking to you about emotional issues, not money issues. Often, it doesn't mean that one needs to give more emotions to you and not be stingy with money in front of you. The other party's intention is likely to make you express emotions towards her, and when spending money on her, treat it like dirt. Those who truly care about emotions and money will never use words like this to enlighten you, but rather do something less or not to say.
I didn't expect you to be too selfish, which really disappointed me
The selfishness between lovers can usually reflect the darkest side of human nature. A truly emotional lover can consider giving as happiness and think more about the other person, which is common in happy marriages. In the world of extramarital affairs, it is difficult to achieve. Because extramarital affairs often lead to psychological barriers and do not consider the lover as a true lifelong reliance, there will be more trade-offs in terms of giving. Limited effort is often the key to conflicts between lovers. Because lovers sometimes come for profit, which exacerbates the balance between giving and receiving. This kind of gain or loss is often linked to the presence or absence of emotions, which makes extramarital love a bait for fishing and makes it a shameful behavior.
I gave you everything, isn't that enough
It's not surprising that people who have extramarital affairs often argue and get angry. For example, if one is jealous, even if they do not truly love each other, they often become jealous when they show intimacy towards other members of the opposite sex. Because extramarital relationships are inherently a form of infidelity, they are extremely sensitive to further infidelity. The second reason is that due to possessiveness, one feels that their privileges have been encroached upon, leading to anger. In extramarital affairs, the party who does not truly love and does not really want to marry the other party often does not express themselves directly when dealing with the other party. On the one hand, I am afraid that such promises and confessions will leave me with no way out, telling the truth, and on the other hand, I am afraid that conflicts will escalate immediately and bring adverse consequences to myself. At critical moments, don't let go of the conversation, don't escalate conflicts, and then find opportunities to leave you speechless, preferring to automatically exit.
Deception is not appropriate because lies are, after all, lies that can have a negative impact on people. The above are some of the most commonly used lies between lovers. Although sometimes lies are innocent and can help us reduce some harm, if our mindset is not correct, they may become the biggest problem in sexual relationships. Therefore, we must pay attention to these lies.
