Post Date December, 02 2023
Men don't want to be "standardized" in management
Bree likes to keep the house clean and tidy, and is very strict with her family. She asked her family to behave like a meeting when eating, and the tableware should not make any noise. Once, while she was in "intimate contact" with her husband, she suddenly noticed that a sandwich was about to fall off the table. She quickly pushed her husband away, rushed up to catch the sandwich, and then wiped the table clean. However, his face was already helpless. When the doctor told her the sad news of her husband's death, her first reaction was to continue washing the dishes, then dress up properly, cry, and go out again. After Bree's death, the two other boyfriends she sought met her "cleanliness standards", but they were both murderers with personality disorders. After suffering a series of blows, Bree became sloppy and manic, and often drank heavily.
Expert analysis: In order to gain recognition from others and suppress her emotions, it is undoubtedly very scary for Bree to transfer bad emotions to men.
Warm reminder: Women with these typical problems should pay more attention to observing others' families and try to lead ordinary lives. In order to realize that not all families should be spotless, and each member should be well dressed. In contrast, families that pursue natural harmony are happier.
In addition, it is necessary to view issues from the perspective of family members, such as chatting with family members more, joking more, and even playing around. Cleanliness is difficult for many men to accept, because a normal man will never have excessive demands on cleanliness. Wives should learn to think in a different way, consider more about men's living habits, and avoid being overly demanding while maintaining a clean family as a whole.
Men believe their wives' loyalty is greater than heaven
Gaby loves social interaction, but she never gives in and compromises in her family. She longed to be on equal footing with her rich husband, pursuing absolute freedom at home, and being struck by handsome boys, she had an affair with a college tutor. After being discovered by her husband, she "smoothed" with some small hands. Although the husband forgives her for her mistake, the marital relationship has since buried the root of the disaster, and the marital conflict has further escalated. But Gaby brought home one of her husband's male competitors to pretend to be her sexual partner. When her husband laughed it off, she preferred to fake it. This scene was seen by the husband who was preparing to bring breakfast into her room in the morning, and the conflict between the two people escalated again.
Expert analysis: Many feminists always hope for equality between men and women, and they also make mistakes when it comes to issues of principle, even trampling on men's rights and dignity. Because these women do not realize that the family is the final domain of men's dignity, in family disputes, women should learn to compromise, show more weakness, and not be self centered. Even in angry situations, they should never choose one-night stands or extramarital affairs as the capital of their anger. Because most men can tolerate their wives' tantrums and quarrels, but they absolutely cannot tolerate women's physical betrayal. On this issue, there are essential differences between men and women. Women can even tolerate one or more physical infidelities by men, but men will not tolerate one such situation by women.
Warm reminder: In family disputes, women of this type should not be too selfish or go to extremes, especially when competing with their loved ones, as the result of the competition often leads to a blind alley in love. Once there is minor friction in the family, it is necessary to first chat with friends or see how parents usually handle problems, striving to divert attention and reduce the desire to take the initiative in controlling family conflicts. Family is a world for two people, and we should cherish it as if it were a treasure handed down from generation to generation.
Men worry that their wives are better than themselves everywhere
Lynette was a strong woman who gave up her career after marriage and raised four children. However, she still exhibits a strong side. Once, when her husband's boss arrived at home for a meeting, Lynette selflessly joined the discussion and stole the spotlight from her husband. After her four children grew up, she returned to the workplace and worked with her husband in the same company, but in a higher position than her husband. Her husband took the initiative to help her share most of the housework, but she often criticized her husband and broke his heart.
Expert analysis: No matter how smart and strong a woman is, she should do her best to maintain the dignity of a man and not harm her husband's self-confidence and self-esteem. A smart and successful woman should learn to often act coquettishly and show weakness in front of her husband, and even find some particularly simple questions that he can blurt out to ask him, giving him more confidence.
Warm reminder: Women with successful careers should not assume that whoever earns less money should do more housework. Husbands do housework out of caring for their wives, so they must be more positive about such behavior. In the traditional sense, men are better at work and women are better at housework. Therefore, when a man is not good at housework, a wife must understand. Especially in families with children, it is very rare for fathers to be willing to play with their children. Like Lynette's husband, who can do housework, children also enjoy playing with him, which is enough. You know, being a good dad is amazing, even harder than being a chairman.
Women who have no opinions make men tired
Susan is one of those assertive women who always vacillates in front of every man who sparks. "Her ex husband who has never had a crush, her boyfriend who is truly in love, and the handsome doctor she has just met... She doesn't know who loves her, let alone who she loves. She often needs her precocious daughter to give her advice.". Susan is a bit cute, a bit simple, and a bit silly, but her emotional swings have brought pain to herself and those who love her. When her ex-husband asked to spend the night with her, she thought the man was unforgettable to her and accepted. However, she later learned that her ex-husband only quarreled with her new girlfriend and came back to seek comfort, but she lost her beloved boyfriend. Later, when faced with the pursuit of a handsome doctor she had just met, she couldn't give up her relationship with her boyfriend. It can be said that Susan's lack of assertiveness has led her to lose her initiative in life.
Expert analysis: This type of woman is always idealized and stylized, without being truly herself, and very confused about her life goals. It is difficult for a man to know what such a woman will do next, because his wife is always hesitant. This personality can make his husband very tired. He needs to devote a lot of energy to making decisions for his wife, which may not have much impact in a short time, while in a long time, he may feel that his wife has not fulfilled her due responsibilities for the family. A man who is already mentally and physically exhausted at work, coupled with his wife's excessive dependence, may one day be unable to bear it.
Warm reminder: The best way to solve this problem is to show off yourself more, cultivate and exercise your abilities at friends' gatherings, or in some public activities. This can help you become confident and believe in your feelings and abilities. In addition, we must find a suitable career and strive to achieve results. In the process of pursuing a career, we will become increasingly assertive. In addition, it is necessary to create more opportunities for "being the master of the family", which can be small matters such as daily necessities. Making more decisions will enable this type of women to firmly establish their life goals and enjoy a higher quality of life.
(Intern Editor: Liu Jinhao)
