Post Date December, 03 2023
A lover in a dream
In May of this year, Xiao Chen, a member of Love and Marriage Network, said that in his mind, there always lived a perfect woman: with beautiful hair and ears, beautiful eyebrows, and gentle and delicate poise... But at the age of nearly 30, he never met such a woman, and therefore refused to talk about love lightly with others.
Chen also said that although there are also women around who are affectionate and loyal to themselves, and have some good feelings for them, they are always unwilling to accept their feelings, lest they miss the time to meet the person in their dreams. Therefore, after waiting and waiting, their parents urge them to marry, their friends are anxious, causing a group of children to be unhappy, leaving them at a loss. They do not know whether waiting can bring about a successful outcome, let alone whether the so-called dream person really exists.
In fact, before meeting a lover, it is inevitable for both men and women to idealize the lover and set rules according to their desired mold. However, as stated on the internet, ideals are full and reality is very skinny. If you blindly pursue a lover like the lover in your dream, the result is more likely to disappoint or even despair. After all, the perfect person in the world is not easy to find, so when you meet the right person and have a feeling of heart, love well
An unforgettable first love
Nalan once said, "If life is only like first sight, what's the sad autumn wind painting fans?" The poem expresses the beauty and indifference of first acquaintance. Also beautiful is first love.
The author once ran into a man on a journey. He was 32 years old and his current girlfriend was 30 years old. Having been in love for two years, I have always been reluctant to enter a marriage. I ask the reason why, is it a yearning or a first love girlfriend, spending time with my current girlfriend, just because the other person is a very good woman and is especially attentive to myself. In real life, there are many confused women who complain that their boyfriends are not attentive enough to themselves, while they know everything about their ex girlfriends like the palm of their fingers.
First love often occurs at the beginning of a relationship, when the feelings are simple and beautiful. Most men also use their heart to pamper the women around them. However, once separated, there are many regrets, and it is inevitable to remember them. That's why some people say that after loving once, they can't love again, and true love only comes once. "Because men become increasingly rational after entering society, and more energy and attention are devoted to striving for their careers, even if they love, it is difficult to have the care and romantic warmth that they showed to their loved ones when they were young.". At this time, what he needs more may be a woman who loves him, understands him, and forgives him.
Nurturing each other and forming an emotional bond
Because of marriage, men also have responsibilities and obligations.
Home is a harbor for men, a heartwarming lamp for men when they come back from work outside. "A woman has become the person who lives in a man's heart, managing household chores for him, giving birth to children for him, and embodying his delicate face with thick ink and fireworks... The days of mutual affection are as shallow as water, and men know that women have worked hard for themselves, and they are doubly attached to this small family that belongs to them.".
The woman who lives in a man's heart has become a synonym for home
Getting married and starting a career is a major event in life for men. A woman who can accompany and nurture a man hand in hand naturally occupies a considerable weight in his heart.
Beauty confidant
"A little more than friends, a little less than lovers" is people's definition of a beauty confidant.
The so-called beauty confidant is a female friend who is spiritually independent and spiritually equal to men, and who can achieve profound resonance. "It's not just an emotional trash can that allows you to pour out your troubles, or a nest where the birds look back after being hurt in the outside world.". Therefore, many men want to have a female confidant.
A confidant is hard to find, but a confidant with a beautiful face is even more difficult. Women originally had a grudge against the beauty of men, so it is very important to grasp the "degree" and not let the "beauty confidant" become a "beauty disaster.".
Abandoning the constant maternal love
Just like many women who have an Oedipus complex, most men also have a deep Oedipus complex. Many men find girlfriends who are similar to their mothers' personalities and habits. Some young wives always complain about why their husbands always compare themselves to their mother-in-law, accusing them of not being as diligent as their mother-in-law and not being as clean as their mother-in-law. They should learn more from their mother-in-law
Mothers occupy a pivotal position in a man's heart, so whenever others say that a mother is not at all angry and angry. In the eyes of men, a mother is wrong and forgivable. This kind of emotion cannot be abandoned for a lifetime. Although occasionally a man will complain about his mother's various faults, it is only limited to his own complaints, so this is why, whenever a woman complains about her mother-in-law's slightest faults, a man will be angry.
