Post Date December, 03 2023
The first type of "rookie" single: "ask for trouble", and it will be sweet until the end
Recreation places: park bench, bar, midnight street, home hair
Go to the park when you are in a bad mood. If you are in a bad mood, don't you just want to be single? A person who has nothing to do every day feels that life is less fun. When I am extremely depressed, I go to the bar and drink hard. When I drink high, I feel happy. I don't care about everything. I use this way of venting to relax myself and relieve the pressure of being single.
The second type of "middle bird" single: love after death is also love
Places for fun: bars, nightclubs, red line parties, online dating chat rooms
Every weekend evening is very empty. From the afternoon when I leave work, I began to feel depressed. I heard that colleagues with companions around me call their boyfriend and girlfriend to discuss where to go for a date. I think about myself. I am alone and I don't know where to go. But I really feel sorry for myself when I stay home. The bar is a good place. Real lovers seldom go to the bar. There are people like me who are single to relax. Even those who go with friends are mostly single. Looking for objects in the bar can be said to find the right target audience. Moreover, in such an environment, people's hearts are very open, especially when chatting up and flirting. The hit rate of speed matching is particularly high. But the quality is not good enough. If you encounter a hunter who has a "one-night stand" unfortunately, you will have to wake up the next morning and sigh "bad luck".
The third category of "big bird" singles: "fox friends and dog friends" get together and love tomorrow
Places for fun: KTV, hot pot restaurant, bowling alley, street water bar
What's the matter with being single? Being single is more free. Men don't have to be busy getting married before they are 30 years old. I'm one year short. I'm afraid that after getting married, we can't compete with our friends in KTV all night like we do now? There is plenty of time on weekends without girlfriends, which is a good time for revelry. Sometimes I will invite my friends to my home to play cards, drink and chat. The next Sunday, we should clean the house properly, so that we can combine work and rest on the weekend. It's very comfortable!
The fourth category of "old bird" single: who am I afraid of? Carry forward the spirit of Ah Q
Recreation place: cinema, love party, park, bachelor party
What's single? Successful single men aged 35-40 are the lovers that little girls dream of. There is no shortage of women to chat up when going to the party. Of course, I enjoy it. Married men can't enjoy such an affair. Even if it is a hot potato, will they accept it or not? A careless person will get into trouble. Even if he doesn't break up with his wife and children, he can't avoid a marriage crisis. Every time I think of this, I am more grateful that I am still single. I often go to various parties and bars, where I feel that I can enjoy ambiguity more freely than married men. On the contrary, those married colleagues often cast envy on me. Ho ho, this sense of achievement, which is not a sense of achievement, makes me more satisfied with the status quo of being single.
The fifth category of "ashes" single: a person's peace and contentment is a blessing
Recreation places: "wilderness", coffee shop, bookstore, exhibition hall, single bed, spa club
I like to go to exhibitions, movies and coffee shops alone to kill my weekend. Enjoy a rare peace. I certainly know that it would be romantic to do these things with loved ones, but I believe that doing them alone is another feeling and experience. Having been single for so many years, I spend most of my time in my single bed. Watch TV, read, listen to music, call family, email old classmates, or meditate with eyes closed. I feel time passing by little by little, but every second is so full.
(Intern editor: Wu Weijie)
